To Sum Up

[Delta4Embassy]

"Give a man a mask and he'll tell you the truth."
- Oscar Wilde

Thus for the first time ever, a poll of mine will be anonymous. Usually like holding people responsible for their votes. But, for this one, more and honest answers are prefered.

Question: What's more harmful to a child's development, non-violent pornography or excessively negative parental reaction to discovery of their child's normal sexual curiousity (as with viewing porn, masturbating, having sex, etc.?)

 

[Pennywise]

In days of common sense (long since past) you would be in an institution surrounded by drooling troglodytes sitting in their own excrement.

 

[Pennywise]

Or locked up in the family basement.

 

[Mr. H.]

The Catholic Church ruined my sex life.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

In days of common sense (long since past) you would be in an institution surrounded by drooling troglodytes sitting in their own excrement.

You mean me, all the police, feds, shrinks, and others?

 

[Delta4Embassy]

If writing about this material makes one suspect then you must be the sort who's suspicious of all authority.

"FBI and police sure write about child sexual abuse a lot, that makes me suspicious."

 

[Delta4Embassy]

The Catholic Church ruined my sex life.

The church itself, or the religion or both?

 

[G.T.]

Why are you so hell bent on talking about giving children porn? This is not even your first thread on the topic.

Should we be worried man? Its a really odd fascination. If you like sexuality, stick to the adult type aight man? Jeebus.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

Why are you so hell bent on talking about giving children porn? This is not even your first thread on the topic.

Should we be worried man? Its a really odd fascination. If you like sexuality, stick to the adult type aight man? Jeebus.

No one's talking about that except you, a couple mods, and some people I've since ignored.

 

[G.T.]

Right, you haven't brought up children viewing porn several times in the last two days.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

Right, you haven't brought up children viewing porn several times in the last two days.

Citing law enforcement, the American Psychological establishment, various universities here and abroad, etc. yes. Didnd't think this all up out of thin air.

 

[G.T.]

Its not important.kids shouldn't be watching smut, that's a rather disturbing concept.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

Its not important.kids shouldn't be watching smut, that's a rather disturbing concept.

Agree. Who said it? Certainly never passed my lips (or fingertips as it were.) Have said I don't believe it's damaging, but not that it isn't important.

But the inability many seem to have reading and writing has them inserting their own issues into this discussion making assumptions then about things I've said, quoted, etc.

The only suspicious ones here are the ones who see communists everywhere they look, to use an older example as during the HUAC nonsense.

 

[Pennywise]

I'm not kidding when I say you should be in long-term intensive therapy. I can scarcely imagine what brought you to this point in your life.

 

[deltex1]

The Catholic Church ruined my sex life.

I feel your pain...but on the other hand you were not a daddy at 16....

 

[deltex1]

"Give a man a mask and he'll tell you the truth."
- Oscar Wilde

Thus for the first time ever, a poll of mine will be anonymous. Usually like holding people responsible for their votes. But, for this one, more and honest answers are prefered.

Question: What's more harmful to a child's development, non-violent pornography or excessively negative parental reaction to discovery of their child's normal sexual curiousity (as with viewing porn, masturbating, having sex, etc.?)

Parents don't make you pregnant...porn gets you to itchin'

 

[Delta4Embassy]

I'm not kidding when I say you should be in long-term intensive therapy. I can scarcely imagine what brought you to this point in your life.

If you can't discuss sexuality without attacking the ones who can, that's a subject I'm happy to discuss with you.

Were you punished when a parent walked in on you masturbating? If so, would you say your sexual development was arrested at whatever age that occured?

My hypothesis that the hangups many adults have about sex stems from traumas suffered in childhood as above. Hence how we handle and teach sexuality to children matters as evidenced by some of the respondants to this and other threads about sexuality.

 

[Pennywise]

I'm not kidding when I say you should be in long-term intensive therapy. I can scarcely imagine what brought you to this point in your life.

If you can't discuss sexuality without attacking the ones who can, that's a subject I'm happy to discuss with you.

Were you punished when a parent walked in on you masturbating? If so, would you say your sexual development was arrested at whatever age that occured?

My hypothesis that the hangups many adults have about sex stems from traumas suffered in childhood as above. Hence how we handle and teach sexuality to children matters as evidenced by some of the respondants to this and other threads about sexuality.

You exhibit an unsettling obsession of pornography and children and it's nothing to do with law enforcement or clinical study. You are a sick person.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

I'm not kidding when I say you should be in long-term intensive therapy. I can scarcely imagine what brought you to this point in your life.

If you can't discuss sexuality without attacking the ones who can, that's a subject I'm happy to discuss with you.

Were you punished when a parent walked in on you masturbating? If so, would you say your sexual development was arrested at whatever age that occured?

My hypothesis that the hangups many adults have about sex stems from traumas suffered in childhood as above. Hence how we handle and teach sexuality to children matters as evidenced by some of the respondants to this and other threads about sexuality.

You exhibit an unsettling obsession of pornography and children and it's nothing to do with law enforcement or clinical study. You are a sick person.

Well not just me. Law enforcement and psychology in general.

 

[Delta4Embassy]

Especially amusing to me you used the word, "unsettling." I've actually been self-censoring myself. Papers, reports, and other writings from law enforcement and academia are a lot more explicit than I've been.