Gave up on cats. I had 3 different male kittens all 3 ran off as soon as they were able to take care of themselves. And ya I know the advice to "fix" them, but I couldn't bring myself to do it. One used to come back about once a month for a meal.
you got to fix them....i use to be a total dog person.....suddenly i am the friggin cat lady....get ya a rescued cat...already fixed...gives the dogs something to chase...