Things about women............

[Bonzi]

 

[Anathema]

So, what happens when the woman runs into a guy who doesn't believe in Love?

 

[Bonzi]

So, what happens when the woman runs into a guy who doesn't believe in Love?

I suppose there are exceptions.....
I would not think a guy who doesn't believe in love would be looking or a relationship... so, his options would be:

(1) Get a hooker
(2) Find a nympho
(3) Find a drunk;or
(4) Lie

Sound right?

 

[Anathema]

I suppose there are exceptions.....
I would not think a guy who doesn't believe in love would be looking or a relationship... so, his options would be:

(1) Get a hooker
(2) Find a nympho
(3) Find a drunk;or
(4) Lie

Sound right?

Not really. Your response suggests sex is the only thing the Man is looking for.

I don't believe in Love and never have. It took me almost 40 years but I did finally find the relationship I was looking for and we just celebrated out first anniversary about three weeks ago.

 

[Wyatt earp]

You forgot Op 5 and 6,

# 5) a stepford wife

#6) a blow up doll

 

[Bonzi]

I suppose there are exceptions.....
I would not think a guy who doesn't believe in love would be looking or a relationship... so, his options would be:

(1) Get a hooker
(2) Find a nympho
(3) Find a drunk;or
(4) Lie

Sound right?

Not really. Your response suggests sex is the only thing the Man is looking for.

I don't believe in Love and never have. It took me almost 40 years but I did finally find the relationship I was looking for and we just celebrated out first anniversary about three weeks ago.

Okay so, if it's not just sex, and not love... then what? Best friends with benefits?

 

[Bonzi]

I suppose there are exceptions.....
I would not think a guy who doesn't believe in love would be looking or a relationship... so, his options would be:

(1) Get a hooker
(2) Find a nympho
(3) Find a drunk;or
(4) Lie

Sound right?

Not really. Your response suggests sex is the only thing the Man is looking for.

I don't believe in Love and never have. It took me almost 40 years but I did finally find the relationship I was looking for and we just celebrated out first anniversary about three weeks ago.

Oh and if you don't mind... how old are you and why don't you believe in love...?

 

[Bonzi]

You forgot Op 5 and 6,

# 5) a stepford wife

#6) a blow up doll

Yeah but neither of them are real... you may as well have also added a hole in a tree!

 

[Bonzi]

You forgot Op 5 and 6,

# 5) a stepford wife

#6) a blow up doll

Yeah but neither of them are real... you may as well have also added a hole in a tree!

.... although that might be painful... maybe a hole in your mattress would be better....

 

[Wyatt earp]

I guess I am being mean, but a relationship with out love is meaningless, it just becomes a contract, a business deal...

 

[Anathema]

Okay so, if it's not just sex, and not love... then what? Best friends with benefits?

It's two people who believe that life is supposed to be lived a certain way, with certain roles and standards for Men and women. People who believe that single adults are effectively coins with only one side (head or tail) printed on them, and that like a coin it's only when they are joined together that they gain real value. I am the breadwinner and she is the homemaker. I am the Leader and she is the supporting staff. Together we make a whole unit, whereas apart neither one of us has anywhere near the value we have together. Oh, and she is at least as on-board with this philosophy as I am. Probably more.

Oh and if you don't mind... how old are you and why don't you believe in love...?

I turned 41 last Friday. She will be 35 next March. We known each other for a little over three and a half years and been married for almost thirteen months now.

Due to personal issues (medical and personality) I learned early on in life to see the darkness in the hearts of people. That made me suspicious of this idea called "love". Then as I started to get a little older I realized it was most often used for one purpose..... To support and defend the most ridiculous, illogical, and flat out stupid decisions that people make. That's why I don't believe in love.

 

[Anathema]

I guess I am being mean, but a relationship with out love is meaningless, it just becomes a contract, a business deal...

Life IS a series of investments and business deals. Nothing more and nothing less.

 

[Wyatt earp]

Okay so, if it's not just sex, and not love... then what? Best friends with benefits?

It's two people who believe that life is supposed to be lived a certain way, with certain roles and standards for Men and women. People who believe that single adults are effectively coins with only one side (head or tail) printed on them, and that like a coin it's only when they are joined together that they gain real value. I am the breadwinner and she is the homemaker. I am the Leader and she is the supporting staff. Together we make a whole unit, whereas apart neither one of us has anywhere near the value we have together. Oh, and she is at least as on-board with this philosophy as I am. Probably more.

Oh and if you don't mind... how old are you and why don't you believe in love...?

I turned 41 last Friday. She will be 35 next March. We known each other for a little over three and a half years and been married for almost thirteen months now.

Due to personal issues (medical and personality) I learned early on in life to see the darkness in the hearts of people. That made me suspicious of this idea called "love". Then as I started to get a little older I realized it was most often used for one purpose..... To support and defend the most ridiculous, illogical, and flat out stupid decisions that people make. That's why I don't believe in love.

so let me take a wild guess?

Your friends call you Spock? Or Sheldon?

 

[Bonzi]

I guess I am being mean, but a relationship with out love is meaningless, it just becomes a contract, a business deal...

Life IS a series of investments and business deals. Nothing more and nothing less.

Do you believe everyone is completely selfish with their own agenda?

 

[Bonzi]

Okay so, if it's not just sex, and not love... then what? Best friends with benefits?

It's two people who believe that life is supposed to be lived a certain way, with certain roles and standards for Men and women. People who believe that single adults are effectively coins with only one side (head or tail) printed on them, and that like a coin it's only when they are joined together that they gain real value. I am the breadwinner and she is the homemaker. I am the Leader and she is the supporting staff. Together we make a whole unit, whereas apart neither one of us has anywhere near the value we have together. Oh, and she is at least as on-board with this philosophy as I am. Probably more.

Oh and if you don't mind... how old are you and why don't you believe in love...?

I turned 41 last Friday. She will be 35 next March. We known each other for a little over three and a half years and been married for almost thirteen months now.

Due to personal issues (medical and personality) I learned early on in life to see the darkness in the hearts of people. That made me suspicious of this idea called "love". Then as I started to get a little older I realized it was most often used for one purpose..... To support and defend the most ridiculous, illogical, and flat out stupid decisions that people make. That's why I don't believe in love.

Have you ever been "head over heels" in love? Do you have a great "love" of your life?
Seems to me everyone I know (except for myself) has one....

 

[Anathema]

so let me take a wild guess?...... Your friends call you Spock? Or Sheldon?

No. Unilke those characters, I can see situations where illogical activities have their place. I understand that people have the right to make decisions contrary to reason and common sense. Hell, I do that fairly regularly myself. What I have no use for is attempting to cover those decisions up with some emotional drivel and thus "legitimize" those decisions to the world as a whole.

 

[Anathema]

Do you believe everyone is completely selfish with their own agenda?

I believe most people are going to do what is in their own best interest 99/100 times. That's just the reality of the situation we call life.

 

[Anathema]

Have you ever been "head over heels" in love? Do you have a great "love" of your life?
Seems to me everyone I know (except for myself) has one....

The closest I've ever come to being "head over heels" in Love came back in the 4th and 5th grades (circa1983-84). She moved away in the summer before we went into sixth grade. The closest I've ever been to being in Love as an adult also moved to the other side of the country with effectively no warning (circa 2005).

My true "Loves" in life are more philosophical or abstract..... sports teams, ideals, political/social beliefs, etc....

 

[Bonzi]

Have you ever been "head over heels" in love? Do you have a great "love" of your life?
Seems to me everyone I know (except for myself) has one....

The closest I've ever come to being "head over heels" in Love came back in the 4th and 5th grades (circa1983-84). She moved away in the summer before we went into sixth grade. The closest I've ever been to being in Love as an adult also moved to the other side of the country with effectively no warning (circa 2005).

My true "Loves" in life are more philosophical or abstract..... sports teams, ideals, political/social beliefs, etc....

Do you mind being alone?
I think that if my marriage dissolved for whatever reason, I would not ever want to marry or be in a committed relationship again. I don't think I'm capable of the love you described above.

You may be more of a believer in love that I am! Actually, I believe it is possible for most other people.... just because I'm a freak doesn't mean everyone else is!

 

[Bonzi]

so let me take a wild guess?...... Your friends call you Spock? Or Sheldon?

No. Unilke those characters, I can see situations where illogical activities have their place. I understand that people have the right to make decisions contrary to reason and common sense. Hell, I do that fairly regularly myself. What I have no use for is attempting to cover those decisions up with some emotional drivel and thus "legitimize" those decisions to the world as a whole.

You are able to look at things objectively... not everyone can "disconnect" like that.
Hubby thinks I'm cold and heartless because I can do that.