bird dog
(noun) a guy who is primarily interested in romancing other people's girl friends. Immortalized in the 1950s by the Everley Brothers in a song of the same name.
Oh, I've done that a few times but its not my primary thing.
You've done it a few times, (had sex with someone you knew was married or engaged). You've "tag teamed", (aka "gang banged"), and you've stated you'd like to join a swingers club. You wonder how I may have gotten the impression that you're a "ho". Your posts.
Sharing a woman with other men....that's what it sounds like to me.
I never tag teamed a lady, I said I almost did but I changed my mind. Sexuality is not so one dimensional for some people, I thought you would understand.