All men, regardless of their behavior? Are you being serious?
Only men, but not all men, happily. Of course I'm serious: men commit nearly all the crime, nearly all the violence, and almost totally all the injury and harm to women. I don't know who you suppose our enemies are --- bluebirds? Skunks? Tortoises?
It's men. Duh.
Its mostly men, but it certainly include both genders.
This "women do it too" meme is deflecting from the fact that men do fully 99% --- probably more ---- of the violence in general and certainly the violence toward women. It's what men say to deflect: they fish around till they can find some weird news story from Arizona 1998 about some woman who tries to run over her husband in the parking lot of a divorce court. They ignore the 733 reports of men who SHOOT their exes in the parking lot (or actual courtroom -- I've read that) of divorce court. Don't give in to their deflections! It's men who are pinning women up against the wall and sticking their tongues down their throats and grinding up against them: it's not other women.