Golly Kitty... if I had suggested that 'all lifestyles are about sex' that might be a fair point... but since I agree with that point; having never asserted otherwise... the point is moot.
The issue is sexual orientation... not the lifestyle, per se; but it is an incontestable fact that both homosexuality and pedophilia are sexual orientations... which reflect a mental disorder which present through sexual devience, of subtle, but various distinctions.
I hope that helps...
Wanting to control another sexually is the same as rape, so BDSM (which is purely sexual) is deviant and illegal. We should get lynch mobs up on that one, all BDSM participants should be locked up, it's a sin.
Is it Kitty? Are ya sure? Cause 'wanting to control someone sexually,' is pretty much called being a male...
Last time I checked, the whips and chains crowd were all into the same crap... some being pitchers and some being catchers... labor and management... givers and takers... where they tend towards complimenting the means and needs of one another.
Now where you find the harm in that is known only to you... and without regard to what one wants to call their kink... where they force their will upon another, and violate the sanctity of their body in so doing, they have committed rape... and you've not heard me justifying anything of the kind, for any reason.
You think homosexuality is a mental disorder because its deviant, and you are a dom? Homosexuality is a LOT less "deviant" than BDSM. You are one of those assholes who wants everything to be the norm, along with their own kink, but if its someone elses kink its all terrible and evil.