So, putting aside the confronting of inner deamons within ourselves and those closest to us... for now, what comforts mean home to you? I could be like beloved Mani and simply say 'Discuss'... but I want to add my thoughts to better steer the direction I mean this to go. Fresh sweet homemade tea in the fridge every day. Breakfast cooking when the kids and man get up. Clothes all washed even if not put away but separated for each individual. Beds made every day, if not by individual sleeping within them then by someone willingly. Rooms and areas sprayed or made pleasantly aromatic with incense, candles, dried herbs, etc. Fresh leftovers in the fridge or freezer and a nice selection of what meals can become. Sweet moments, guitar songs, tender caresses, long movies and strong drinks. and not to end a 'wanted' list, but to *just* stop here... a good healthy argument once in a week or so! *kisses* Anyone else have the things that mean successful love to them? Granted, most of these are atmospheric things, but they potentially lead to so much more. These are both the things I love to do and yet things I would hope to be able to pass on for my husband's and children's comfort/support.