If you loved someone

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    would you want to change them fundamentally?

    Would you try b/c you think you can make them a better person?

    Or would you not, knowing that you love them as they are?
     
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    okayyyy

    I'll go first

    My future wife nearly dumped me on our first date, b/c I licked my knife clean. It was after I cut my steak and before I buttered my bread.

    10 years later, I still lick my knife.

    Not exactly fundamental of who I am, but it hints twards things that are.
     
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    I tried but failed. Then I bailed. Good riddance.
     
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    Huge mistake to try to change someone.

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    Huge mistake to get into a relationship with someone who needs changing.
     
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    Dot.

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    Love is not about changing, but, embracing who the other person is. If they do things that create an untenable situation, change your self or move on.
     
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    first off.... love or not... you cant change anyone. More so if what you want to change is fundamental to who and what they are.


    If you love someone... you love them.


    Though that being said.... love is not unconditional.
     
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    some things you can live with.... and some things you just cant!

    Your table manners are not a deal breaker... though i bet she will still smack the shit out of you if you do that in public and embarrass her.
     
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    Alright now..... WHY are you asking?


     

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