when a woman says to a man are you hitting on me or she says your hitting on me exactly what does she mean by this nasty statement? is he annoying her she wants hin to go away? she enjoys the attention and wants more? its a nasty thing women say to men. anytime a woman has ever said this to me without another word i turn and make my exit. for the first time in my life i had a woman start talking to me a attractive lady my age i said to her are you hitting on me. i felt good giving her a taste of her own medicine. im still not sure what women mean when they say this.