Hagbard Celine
Senior Member
I just don't see any problem with what she wrote. Fibbing about your age and trying to act sexy are par for the course with twelve year-old girls and boys as has been the case with most of the people I grew up with.
I agree that she should be made aware of the possibilities of pedophiles, but spying on her is pretty wrong in my book. She'll lose trust for her sister if she knows that she's been spying behind her back.
Maybe she should be approached about it while she is on the internet so that she thinks it's just an impromptu lesson from big sis. That way she will still trust you and will probably be more inclined to listen to what you say.
I agree that she should be made aware of the possibilities of pedophiles, but spying on her is pretty wrong in my book. She'll lose trust for her sister if she knows that she's been spying behind her back.
Maybe she should be approached about it while she is on the internet so that she thinks it's just an impromptu lesson from big sis. That way she will still trust you and will probably be more inclined to listen to what you say.