The arguement begins with a statement : "God intended us to lust after one another and built safegards into the brain to ensure the species." The rebuttle : "No, to lust is wrong and we must strive to be like the spirit above affairs of the flesh. then into some quote from Paul about if a man burns then he should take a wife or something like that." The reply : "Look, there are some people you are attracted to and others your not, who knows why, maybe it's pheremones. Everyone has lust in their heart but it is so subtle it's unnoticed. There is a reason you dress the way you do, groom the way you do, and smell the way you do, and it's not because you want to talk scripture." The rebuttle : "The bible says..." The bottom line : The bible can say anything it wants to but the facts are this. One, people are attrcated to who they are gonna be attracted to and you can't do anything about it. It's hard wired into the brain. Two, it is understood that we are different from the animals because we can choose when and whom to have sex, but when we do, morality and the bible have nothing to do with our choices. It's hard wired into the brain. Three, the next time someone says being gay is a choice or you can get talked into it, ask yourself these questions. How much gay porn would you have to watch, before you thought it might be a hoot to have gay sex?...What arguement could be made to get you to have gay sex, that you would agree to?...How long would you have to go without sex before you broke down and said ok I'll give it a shot?... It's hardwired into the brain you are gay or you are not. Fourth, in the end the descision is always a physical one, not a spiritual one. Finally, There is a reason for everything and if you really believe that God made us in his likeness, gave us wants and desires and made us everything that we are mentally and emotionally...Then the bible wants us to act against god's initial intentions when he created us." So the question is which did God make stronger a persons sexual desire or their will power?