Cecilie1200
Diamond Member
i picked the 2nd option although Im not truly sure either way.
Im not a fan of marriage....putting a contract on something like love is always a bad idea IMO.
I see it the opposite: making a contract based on love is a bad idea. Marriage doesn't have to be romantic hearts and flowers, but it DOES have to be a contract.
Why do you feel it has to be a contract?
Because it is. Whatever your motivations for it are, you are each making certain commitments and promises to each other, ie verbal contracts. And every time that you discuss your marriage and marital issues with each other afterward, you are engaging in renegotiation of your contractual agreement.