Setarcos
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Male Rape myths and facts, the rape of men[SIZE=+1]Myth: Getting an erection or ejaculation during sexual assault means you "really wanted it" or consented to it.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+1]Reality: This is one of the things that can cause male rape survivors a lot of confusion and guilt when they do not know how things work. For a start I can honestly say that getting an erection shows nothing other than your body responds how it is suppose to do. It is a totally normal thing to happen and has nothing to do with desire. Have you never been on a bus, or sat in an office meeting, and it has gone hard all by it's self for no reason ?[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+1]Basically, unless you have some medical condition that stops you then you will get an erection when it is manipulated. It is a result of stimulation, and it does not matter if you do not want it to happen or not. There is little you can do to stop it most of the time.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+1]Sadly, some males become confused and think an erection equals arousal equals them wanting it. In reality all it means is that part of the body has nerve endings that respond to touch and that touch can be wanted or not wanted, pleasant or non pleasant. With lubricant you will have even less choice as to how it responds to touch. It is the same as the body will respond to someone tickling you and you will probably laugh, but if it is done at a time or by a person you do not want to tickle you it will still respond.[/SIZE]
[SIZE=+1] If you were penetrated, the pressure in the prostate gland (see diagram below) also will cause an erection. Anyone who has ever had a DRE (short for Digital Rectal Exam) of the prostate at their doctors will know that getting an erection often happens during the examination. [/SIZE]
[SIZE=+1][/SIZE][SIZE=+1]Now as far as ejaculation goes, again this is a very normal thing to have happened. In fact, the rapist will very often go out of their way to make sure that you do ejaculate, in order to try to make you more ashamed, (adds to their dominate feeling of power) and also they know it will likely reduce your chances of reporting the crime. First off, it is because it is a normal reaction to stimulation. Second, the pressure on the prostate will, by it's self, release some fluid, making the penis more sensitive to that stimulation. In fact, it is possible for a doctor to obtain a semen sample during a DRE. Pressure on the seminal vesicle will likewise release a lot of fluid, and could resemble ejaculation to some extent, although may feel different. [/SIZE][SIZE=+1]Seminal Vesicles: Two glands which provides about two-thirds of the fluid which makes up the semen. These are located to the left and right of the prostate. Output of the seminal vesicle mixes with the sperm from the vas deferens and flows through a duct which then passes the fluid through the prostate to the urethra.[/SIZE][SIZE=+1]One other thing to remember, is that ejaculation against your will, and an orgasm when having a wanted sexual encounter are, two totally different things.[/SIZE]
Interesting, and makes sense.
Since generally a man is stronger than a woman, he could stop it easier unless bound, wouldn't that be correct?
Since women can take self-defense classes and know to hit a man in the groin, carry protective weapons, or otherwise defend themselves, they should be able to easily stop most attackers, yes?
Many rapists blame the victim or claim that the victim must have wanted it in order to have not fought back or to have shown a physiological response (hell, the Jews/Christians demand she die for it if she's not a virgin).
I am highly suspicious of your intentions at this point.
follow the link I posted before