NYcarbineer
Diamond Member
99% of the men who got their girlfriends pregnant ARE TOLD about the pregnancy and do have a choice on whether she aborts or not....and they choose to have her abort most of the time.....you hear of 1 case in 3 million abortions a year where the baby's father does not want their baby to be aborted and he sues or makes a stink so the op's presumption that the man has no say is simply not true....
You have no evidence for any of that. Legally the man has zero say in the matter.
The man's say in the matter began when he made an informed decision to voluntarily have intercourse with the woman.
He knew the possible consequence of a pregnancy.
He knew the legal rights of the woman to choose either abortion or birth.
He knew the legal financial consequences of fathering a child.
That, in sum total, is sufficient to establish his responsibility in the pregnancy.