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    How do you tell someone that you love them and don't want to lose them?

    This person is my ex-girlfriend.
     
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    1. Pick up the phone.
    2. Ask the person to meet you for dinner/coffee/dessert.
    3. Tell her that you love her and don't want to lose her.

    Alternate:

    1. Pick up the phone.
    2. Ask her out to a bar.
    3. Have drunk ex sex.
    4. During pillow talk, tell her that you love her and don't want to lose her.
     
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    Hmm...well, that made me laugh anyway!
    Thanks. ;)
    Maybe there's something to that.
     
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    Why did you think THAT was funny? Getting a person drunk & having sex with them when they aren't in control of their faculties? Seems you think women are playthings.

    But then, maybe, GOP was making a joke.
     
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    jUST ASK HER TO SHACK UP !! HAHA
     
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    get her to see the error of her ways and make her not want to lose you!!!!!
     
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    Tell her you hate her and never want to see her again.

    When she says: ".....REALLY????" --You then break into the stunned silence with the truth. It takes all the pressure off.

    -And it is a dark sense of humor style approach.
     
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    I've read the other posts in reponse.

    You didn't give allot to go on, like what is the basic problem, but my experience shows the following to usually be true and might help you.

    Call her and tell her you fucked up - you admit she was right and you will never do it again.

    Tell her you love her more than life itself and second only to God.

    Write her a poem.
     
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    Flasher, I don't know you or your situation so I can only advice on personal experience. When my wife and I were going together a couple of years our relationship turned sour. She eventually moved out because she needed some space and time to think which is natural in any relationship. I can't say I was devastated because of the situation I felt the same. But I just couldn't get her off my mind no matter what I did, so I decided to start over and court her like I did when we first started dating. As time passed we started dating and talking again and eventually she moved back in with me. We have been married now for 15 years and seems like every day is just as special as the next. Hope this helps.....
     

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