Been binging this tv show and I cringe. So why watch it? Boredom, I guess. My question about this show is...are people this damn dumb to up and move to another country "for love"? Sure looks like it. Then, when they get there, they are shocked/dismayed/grossed out on the conditions on which they must live. Did they not study the shithole country their "true love" resides in? The cultures? Oh, he can have 4 wives? Oh, no running water? Oh, barbed wiring around the hovel the "true love" lives in a shanty that is called an apartment? Oh, I must become a muslim to marry? Oh, she or he is chatting up another catfish sucker while marrying you? STUPID. So the real question is...is the show a set up or are they really that damn dumb?