I have always been nauseated at the conspicuous and obnoxious waste of money in connection with today's proms. Historically, we rented a tux and the babe bought a new "prom" dress; we borrowed the nicest car in the family, went to the prom and one or two post-prom parties, and went home - occasionally under the influence of adult beverages.
The current extravaganzas - all paid for with money extorted from the parents - should be brought under some sane guidelines.
If you're not aware, don't miss the PROMposal. Because everything in 2019 must be MORE, the poor teen boys can't just pick up the phone anymore or ask a girl to prom in the hallway. No, PROMposals must be choreographed, carefully planned out proposals complete with some "surprise" element, gifts, flowers, and someone taping the "surprise". Otherwise, you just shouldn't even ask a girl to the prom.
How ridiculous is that?
I agree it's all too much. We have dress shops here in which girls drop almost a grand on a dress. Those shops will "register" girls from their high school to ensure no one else has her particular dress. It's just out of control.