The "Body Count" question: Appropriate or not?

[DStar777]

Saw this video today. A reaction to a young woman complaining about the "Body Count" question. She was seriously offended.

Ok so this young woman finds it rude for her date to ask her about her sex life. Then she takes to social media and, without her date's permission, blabs to the whole world about the date and judges him for being a 37 year old single man. A bit hypocritical if you ask me. So is the "Body count" question innapropriate or not?

 

[Manonthestreet]

Saw this video today. A reaction to a young woman complaining about the "Body Count" question. She was seriously offended.

Ok so this young woman finds it rude for her date to ask her about her sex life. Then she takes to social media and, without her date's permission, blabs to the whole world about the date and judges him for being a 37 year old single man. A bit hypocritical if you ask me. So is the "Body count" question innapropriate or not?

Seems like a pointless question unless you're religious,,,,,or it matters that much. Not a question I asked the wife.....past was the past as far as I was concerned

 

[toobfreak]

Saw this video today. A reaction to a young woman complaining about the "Body Count" question. She was seriously offended.

She was obviously offended by the question because she was embarrassed to answer it honestly saying: "You are my first."

Just say it Honey--- you could not get laid if you stripped naked, painted yourself to look like a striped candy cane, then duct taped yourself to a pole at the intersection of 52rd and Lexington.

 

[DStar777]

She was obviously offended by the question because she was embarrassed to answer it honestly saying: "You are my first."

Heh.. interesting. Others might say she was embarrassed by how high the count was.

 

[Toddsterpatriot]

Saw this video today. A reaction to a young woman complaining about the "Body Count" question. She was seriously offended.

Ok so this young woman finds it rude for her date to ask her about her sex life. Then she takes to social media and, without her date's permission, blabs to the whole world about the date and judges him for being a 37 year old single man. A bit hypocritical if you ask me. So is the "Body count" question inappropriate or not?

Was her body count triple digits?

 

[DStar777]

Was her body count triple digits?

Hard to say. I won't even take a guess.
She could have handled this much better in any case. Just tell your date that you want your sex life to remain private and, depending on his response, continue seeing him or not. Why go to the internet and whine about it like a little child?

 

[d0gbreath]

That always comes out in the long run. Definitely not a first date question Gestapo.

 

[rightwinger]

It comes down to values and character.
If your prospective partner has double digit sexual partners it shows she does not form meaningful relationships and is unlikely to be faithful

 

[shockedcanadian]

Saw this video today. A reaction to a young woman complaining about the "Body Count" question. She was seriously offended.

Ok so this young woman finds it rude for her date to ask her about her sex life. Then she takes to social media and, without her date's permission, blabs to the whole world about the date and judges him for being a 37 year old single man. A bit hypocritical if you ask me. So is the "Body count" question innapropriate or not?

It's a silly question unless you have a specific purpose in which you won't date anyone who has done it prior.

First, how do you know you are going to get an accurate response even if you do ask? She could have been a prostitute for 10 years but she can tell you "I've only been in love with one man in my life". Try to circle that square of obscurity.

Second, it may be offensive and alter her view of you for being nosey and maybe even lacking confidence.

Third, if she asks you the same question, what are you going to say?

People change and they learn from those experiences that didn't work out, so why get her remembering those bad outcomes?

I can say with complete honesty that I've turned down far more opportunities than I've accepted, it was just the code I lived by I guess, it doesn't make me good, bad or odd, it just is.

In some cases I was just too stupid. I remember being in High School on an annual camp trip and during some hand holding exercise with guys and girls. Some girl who I had gone to school with since we were kids kept scratching the inside of my hand while looking at me and raising her eye brows.

I smiled back and was polite. I thought she was just playing some funny "scratch game" or something. Years later I am told by another girl who was laughing her ass off that this means "she wants you". How the hell should I know that? LOL!

I mean this saw this girl for the next four years in high school, oblivious to it all. I knew her older sister very well also so it was all very strange to me.

Anyways, the past is the past. Regrets, some experiences. Live in the moment and judge her by your compatibility today, not compatibility of yesteryear.

 

[RoshawnMarkwees]

It’s important to know if a woman is a slut or not. Reflects on character and integrity. Women and men have different sexual designs. Women are naturally selective and men are random. A woman to be random and promiscuous is a sign of low integrity.

 

[ReinyDays]

The man is terrible in bed ... so he'd rather have inexperienced women ... so they don't notice ...

 

[DStar777]

Women are naturally selective and men are random. A woman to be random and promiscuous is a sign of low integrity.

Is there any reason to think that a man lacks integrity if he is random as you put it?

 

[shockedcanadian]

It’s important to know if a woman is a slut or not. Reflects on character and integrity. Women and men have different sexual designs. Women are naturally selective and men are random. A woman to be random and promiscuous is a sign of low integrity.

How are you going to know what is and isn't true though?

It's a moot point if you ask me. It may tell you a great deal about her, but why would you want to know about her then, compared to now?

You can only use your judgement which will never be perfect.

 

[RoshawnMarkwees]

Is there any reason to think that a man lacks integrity if he is random as you put it?

It would likely suggest that he’s either lucky or has low standards. If he’s lucky, he’s the one the reputable ladies all want. If he has low standards, he’ll do any woman.

 

[DonGlock26]

This is the fruit of modern feminism. High body counts/abortions/STDs in their twenties. Unable to find a man that wants them in their 30-40's.

 

[RoshawnMarkwees]

How are you going to know what is and isn't true though?

It's a moot point if you ask me. It may tell you a great deal about her, but why would you want to know about her then, compared to now?

You can only use your judgement which will never be perfect.

If she’s a slut, you’ll eventually know because she won’t stop with you.

 

[shockedcanadian]

If she’s a slut, you’ll eventually know because she won’t stop with you.

Well. First, one has to be honest and expect honesty.

A man will generally be able to tell by the questions they are receiving or not receiving. If she just wants a fling, you will be able to tell by her questions. You can decide if you want to pursue that or not and vice versa if she wants to pursue a relationship.

 

[RoshawnMarkwees]

Well. First, one has to be honest and expect honesty.

A man will generally be able to tell by the questions they are receiving or not receiving. If she just wants a fling, you will be able to tell by her questions. You can decide if you want to pursue that or not and vice versa if she wants to pursue a relationship.

And the man’s level of horniness might make all of that moot.

 

[shockedcanadian]

And the man’s level of horniness might make all of that moot.

Well, one has to be the master of their domain! Have some self respect man!

 

[DStar777]

And the man’s level of horniness might make all of that moot.

Self control man.. self control.

Well, one has to be the master of their domain!

Love the Seinfeld reference.