I thought about a lot of members on this board when this woman I matched with asked me....."Do you gamble?"

[fbj]

My initial response was going to be.........."yeah but only as a hobby". But then I sat and thought.........."just lie andd say NO. lol I am known for telling women over the years what they DONT WANNA HEAR and this was one of the first times I had to stop myself before I said the wrong thing. I mean I need to learn that in the world of dating its all about LIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

 

[Moonglow]

you gamble with every date you ask.

 

[fbj]

you gamble with every date you ask.

Dating is Gambling so we both do it lol

 

[Moonglow]

Dating is Gambling so we both do it lol

I don't date, I am through with that shit.

 

[The Duke]

My initial response was going to be.........."yeah but only as a hobby". But then I sat and thought.........."just lie andd say NO. lol I am known for telling women over the years what they DONT WANNA HEAR and this was one of the first times I had to stop myself before I said the wrong thing. I mean I need to learn that in the world of dating its all about LIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

You should be honest with women if you want them to like you for who you are.

Posted by Not a playboy, but I do have experience with women. Enough to know that even the best of them will get up sometimes in the morning, look over at the man in their life and think: "I'm going to ruin that ************'s day".
All women do that; Even the best of the best of them. All females.
So, you gotta learn how to handle that. (Because it's going to happen) All men do.
What you do is..act unaffected.(Yeah, I don't care if she's pissing you of, this is what you do) Say "That's nice, honey."
Smile at them, wave, walk out the door. (don't go in for a kiss or anything like that)
Say "Have a wonderful day, sweetheart". Go away and stay out of sight and mind for at least 8 hours.
(going to work kills time and keeps your mind off of it)
By the time you get back they will be loving you, 9 times out of 10.
I'm giving away the secrets to a happy life here.


I got another one, too. One I learned from the husband of a couple I do work for.

They discuss how things should be done. He says how he thinks it should be done and then she says how she thinks it should be done,

and then they do it her way. That is an infinitely wise way to do things. Especially if whatever it is crashes and burns; It wasn't the way you

wanted to do it.

True stories. Stories for a happier life; Yoar Welcome.

 

[fbj]

You should be honest with women if you want them to like you for who you are.

Posted by Not a playboy, but I do have experience with women.

well I am trying to get some options so right now I have to say the things that will help me get a date

 

[The Duke]

well I am trying to get some options so right now I have to say the things that will help me get a date

Say you're a macho yet caring and sensitive man.

Oh stop me, I can't even believe my own bullshit.

I've never lacked for women, but I am the opposite of the dudes that tell them what they want to hear. I have a friend like that; he probably gets laid every night to this day. I just can't lie like a used car salesman like that. I gotta tell it like it is, and I am cognizant that it cuts a certain portion out of the getting laid factor and am perfectly fine with that.

You wanna get laid like my friend that gets laid every night? Lie to teh women; Tell them what they want to hear, lay it on thick and heavy. No lie is too big. Just remember you have to live with yourself the next day; and get rid of them before your lies are figured out.
Geez, is that how it is? Yes! It is from what I've seen.

If you want a girl that's gonna be your road dog? You ain't gonna get her the way you're doing.

Aw man, my 1st ex was awesome!

The 2nd wasn't so bad either, but the 1st ex could kick her ass 9 ways to Sunday even though she was only 4'11" and my 2nd ex was 5'8"

#2 was good on the feminine side, but not so good on the integrity and having ..chutzpah side.


She was better with domestic duties that I never asked for and can do completely for myself, but #2 did those things well; Better than me.

I'm better off doing those things for myself, though. Mid week sex? There's no woman around to constantly see dressing/undressing or smell, or give me hell in the morning, so I don't be gettin' too horned up.
I'm fine where I'm at. You do you.

 

[fbj]

Say you're a macho yet caring and sensitive man.

Oh stop me, I can't even believe my own bullshit.

I've never lacked for women, but I am the opposite of the dudes that tell them what they want to hear. I have a friend like that; he probably gets laid every night to this day. I just can't lie like a used car salesman like that. I gotta tell it like it is, and I am cognizant that it cuts a certain portion out of the getting laid factor and am perfectly fine with that.

You wanna get laid like my friend that gets laid every night? Lie to teh women; Tell them what they want to hear, lay it on thick and heavy. No lie is too big. Just remember you have to live with yourself the next day; and get rid of them before your lies are figured out.
Geez, is that how it is? Yes! It is from what I've seen.

I havent been on a date since July so Its time to get back out there

 

[Delldude]

Go with internet porn and spank the monkey.....in the long run. you'll be better off.

 

[Ava]

My initial response was going to be.........."yeah but only as a hobby". But then I sat and thought.........."just lie andd say NO. lol I am known for telling women over the years what they DONT WANNA HEAR and this was one of the first times I had to stop myself before I said the wrong thing. I mean I need to learn that in the world of dating its all about LIES!!!!!!!!!!!!!! lol

We do not attract that which we want; we attract that which we are.

 

[Ava]

"-caring and sensitive man.

Two reasons I love my husband. Don't want or need the macho.

 

[shockedcanadian]

We do not attract that which we want; we attract that which we are.

This is quite a stretch. Gambling is a vice created by the devil. It can afflict anyone but turns people with weak constitutions into even worse human beings, they will self destruct and drag another down with them.

 

[toobfreak]

I need to learn that in the world of dating its all about LIES!

Is it? You think you are going to have a lasting, meaningful relationship based on a meeting that begins with lies?

 

[Gracie]

After Dennis and I got together...maybe a year or so...he told me he fell for me because I wouldn't accept his leadership. We were looking at couches, and he liked one, while I liked another. He said he was buying it so the one he liked would be the one coming home with us. I calmly said I may not be buying it, but I am the one that will keep it clean, I will be sitting on it, and if he buys it, I would wait for him to go to work, then drag it outside and set it on fire. He looked shocked at first, then laughed and said "my ex wife would defer to me ALL THE TIME. Yes dear. No dear. Whatever you say, dear. She was water. But you? you are FIRE. I love you".



On the 14th of Feb..it will be a year since he passed. I'm still dealing with it. Valentines Day will forever suck.

 

[cnm]

Is it? You think you are going to have a lasting, meaningful relationship based on a meeting that begins with lies?

Lol. Whatever makes you think he wants a meaningful, lasting relationship?

 

[luiza]

This is quite a stretch. Gambling is a vice created by the devil. It can afflict anyone but turns people with weak constitutions into even worse human beings, they will self destruct and drag another down with them.

You just love your Mumbo Jumbo .

As usual you make little sense , because every forward move in every sphere of activity is a gamble .

Useful change is about good assessment of risks and their probabilities .

Nothing about the involvement of our naughty Uncle Lucifer , unless you indulge in rationalisation , deflection and BS .

Which you apparently do , and make it the backbone excuse for failures .

 

[shockedcanadian]

You just love your Mumbo Jumbo .

As usual you make little sense , because every forward move in every sphere of activity is a gamble .

Useful change is about good assessment of risks and their probabilities .

Nothing about the involvement of our naughty Uncle Lucifer , unless you indulge in rationalisation , deflection and BS .

Which you apparently do , and make it the backbone excuse for failures .

You ever live with a seriois gamblin naddictiin or marry one? Someone who will spend so much that it risks their home and health coverage they rely on? You must be Canadian or a plant to bother me here. It's no wonder so many allied nations don't trust Canada as being a just, honest nation of freedom. They blame people like for speaking the truth instead of themselves for abusing their authority, even British agencies are turning their backs on us.

 

[fbj]

You ever live with a seriois gamblin naddictiin or marry one? Someone who will spend so much that it risks their home and health coverage they rely on? You must be Canadian or a plant to bother me here. It's no wonder so many allied nations don't trust Canada as being a just, honest nation of freedom. They blame people like for speaking the truth instead of themselves for abusing their authority, even British agencies are turning their backs on us.

this is the main reason I decided not to say I gamble for fun because she would be thinking about shit that is irrelevant like me gambling the mortgage and we not even a couple yet. so I just lied and said no

 

[shockedcanadian]

this is the main reason I decided not to say I gamble for fun because she would be thinking about shit that is irrelevant like me gambling the mortgage and we not even a couple yet. so I just lied and said no

Your posts are somewhat depressing. I know it's not intentional, but you seemed to be jaded about relationships. I feel the same at the moment, I've tried with great effort to find happiness. So many years later I feel empty and alone.

Find God and meet a good woman of Faith, you aren't that young are you?

 

[The Duke]

After Dennis and I got together...maybe a year or so...he told me he fell for me because I wouldn't accept his leadership. We were looking at couches, and he liked one, while I liked another. He said he was buying it so the one he liked would be the one coming home with us. I calmly said I may not be buying it, but I am the one that will keep it clean, I will be sitting on it, and if he buys it, I would wait for him to go to work, then drag it outside and set it on fire. He looked shocked at first, then laughed and said "my ex wife would defer to me ALL THE TIME. Yes dear. No dear. Whatever you say, dear. She was water. But you? you are FIRE. I love you".



On the 14th of Feb..it will be a year since he passed. I'm still dealing with it. Valentines Day will forever suck.

See? Just like that couple with the succesful marriage. There may be some things you don't compromise on, but there will be some concessions if you want to be happy. If mama ain't happy, ain't nobody happy.
Just yesterday my workin' partner came over early because his wife pissed him off early. I'm like "Alright, hang over here until the afternoon, and don't say nothin' about this mornin' to her when you go back home." Chances are he was alright last night.