You don’t hear it as much because this is a national board and debating CA politics with a member in WA usually is not helpful. There is also the fact that state governments can and should be the greater presence as you can leave a state and still be an American. You can’t say the same thing for the feds.
Lastly, I am a libertarian and I have complained several times about state regulations as they are more oppressive than the federal government by far. Unfortunately, we are not going to solve this by fixing the states and then the feds though, they will just step in. We need t get the federal government back on track with small and efficient by turning most of its powers to the states where we can get the state governments smaller and more efficient by turning those powers over to the localities where we can finally end things that the government should never have been doing in the first place.