DGS49
Diamond Member
1. Don't be an idiot. Don't allow yourself to be put in a highly-vulnerable situation, particularly with someone that you do not know well. If you go to parties, stay in public areas. If you want to talk with someone privately, go OUTSIDE, not to a (fucking) bedroom. Remember, there are only two reasons why Fraternities have parties: (1) to get drunk, (2) to get laid. Not necessarily in that order. And remember, Frat Boys are social retards who have no chance of accomplishing (2) unless their victim is drunk.
2. Familiarize yourself with the LEGAL definitions of sexual assault in the state where you are going to school. Pay no attention to the nonsense the college tries to tell you. An attempt to hold your hand is not "sexual assault."
3. If you are the victim of sexual assault, call "911" and tell them you want the POLICE to respond. Not the "campus police." But remember, this is a serious criminal matter and if you are not willing to cooperate in producing evidence and in testifying against the perp, then don't waste their time. Time is of the essence; don't wait to report a crime.
4. Avail yourself of whatever resources you can to help you deal with the incident - family, friends, police, campus resources, church/synagogue resources, whatever. The objective is to minimize the damage TO YOU (fuck the school).
5. If the assault was offensive and hurtful, but NOT criminal, then you can consider whatever measures the college might have to resolve the situation informally, but don't expect much. Recognize that such incidents are an embarrassment to the school, and they will want to control the damage (you).
6. If you decide to "go public" in some way, remember that anything you say that is not truthful and factual constitutes slander and can bring a world of shit down on you. So tell the absolute truth.
2. Familiarize yourself with the LEGAL definitions of sexual assault in the state where you are going to school. Pay no attention to the nonsense the college tries to tell you. An attempt to hold your hand is not "sexual assault."
3. If you are the victim of sexual assault, call "911" and tell them you want the POLICE to respond. Not the "campus police." But remember, this is a serious criminal matter and if you are not willing to cooperate in producing evidence and in testifying against the perp, then don't waste their time. Time is of the essence; don't wait to report a crime.
4. Avail yourself of whatever resources you can to help you deal with the incident - family, friends, police, campus resources, church/synagogue resources, whatever. The objective is to minimize the damage TO YOU (fuck the school).
5. If the assault was offensive and hurtful, but NOT criminal, then you can consider whatever measures the college might have to resolve the situation informally, but don't expect much. Recognize that such incidents are an embarrassment to the school, and they will want to control the damage (you).
6. If you decide to "go public" in some way, remember that anything you say that is not truthful and factual constitutes slander and can bring a world of shit down on you. So tell the absolute truth.