Bonzi
Diamond Member
- May 17, 2015
- 43,036
- 16,020
- 2,290
There are always discussions such as, if you really love this person you would "do xyz" or you would "feel xyz" but is this really true?
Is love, be it of a spouse/mate or a family member, relative to your perceptions?
Or are there certain absolutes regarding love that apply to everyone?
I feel that love is self-defined. You know what you need to be/feel loved, and, the key is to find someone that will love you that way AND that you can love in the way that person needs to be loved.
If that is the case, no wonder it is so hard to find someone you are compatible with - I don't even think common interests are all THAT important if you find someone where the paragraph above occurs.
Is love, be it of a spouse/mate or a family member, relative to your perceptions?
Or are there certain absolutes regarding love that apply to everyone?
I feel that love is self-defined. You know what you need to be/feel loved, and, the key is to find someone that will love you that way AND that you can love in the way that person needs to be loved.
If that is the case, no wonder it is so hard to find someone you are compatible with - I don't even think common interests are all THAT important if you find someone where the paragraph above occurs.