I am shallow. But I want to snap out of it. I am white but I am completely taken over by my GF's dark brown Ethiopian skin, plus her big breasts, and very small waist-line. She asked if I would still love her if she gets older and loses her good waist line and the perkiness of her boobs. So I started to think ... I want to retain her, so I must become more of a decent guy. How do I work myself to snap out of my shallowness and be of some value to her?