Yes. She wants validation that she's gay and she's OK before she'll do the right thing.
I don't see it that way. It's just a matter of wanting to give sexual orientation the same protection that religious affiliation enjoys.
Hmm..so you're a libertarian who thinks that PA is "protection?"
No. I was characterizing what I perceive to be the motives of people like Seawytch. I think I've been very clear that I think PA laws amount to group privilege.