Good advice to young women be a good wife and mother

[Anathema]

Right, people should give things up so others can continue their greed

There are Needs in life and there are Wants. Companies exist to make money, not support their employees excesses in life.

 

[HeyNorm]

Many of the "things" are for the children. Such as a vacation. Having a reliable car. A house. etc.

Vacation or moms hugs.

You really are “that” stupid.

 

[Anathema]

If both spouses agree this is what they want then yes. If not, a different arrangement is the way to go

I never waited that long. Thst was first date discussion, and if it didn’t go well, the date was over. Probably why I didn’t get married until I was 40z

 

[pknopp]

There are Needs in life and there are Wants. Companies exist to make money, not support their employees excesses in life.

Greed. As noted, you argue for something and then argue for something else that makes what you initially argue for harder for families.

 

[initforme]

Or maybe you reduce your standard of living. Do you NEED two vacations a year? Luxury cars? Heeelry? Neeest electronics? 2800 square foot house? Eating out 4-5 nights a week?

No one doesn't need those things. But if one wants those things then they may have to focus on work rather than having a family. A growing number want nice things too. Can we blame them?

 

[initforme]

I never waited that long. Thst was first date discussion, and if it didn’t go well, the date was over. Probably why I didn’t get married until I was 40z

Well you were smart. Waited until you were financially stable and found the one that agrees with your lifestyle.

 

[Tommy Tainant]

Or maybe you reduce your standard of living. Do you NEED two vacations a year? Luxury cars? Heeelry? Neeest electronics? 2800 square foot house? Eating out 4-5 nights a week?

Corporate greed over the health of society. Thats what I said..
You know that people who buy things keep the economy going ?

 

[Tommy Tainant]

Better wages happen when fewer people are competing for jobs. If only one household member works, wages rise naturally.

Problems solve themselves

I guess that you have a link to that. Meanwhile come back from the 50s Norm.

 

[22lcidw]

Corporate greed over the health of society. Thats what I said..
You know that people who buy things keep the economy going ?

Perhaps we purchase the wrong things over and over.

 

[Tommy Tainant]

Perhaps we purchase the wrong things over and over.

Maybe.I think dishwashers are not reliable and neither are lawn mowers. Kettles are rubbish but most other stuff is getting better.

 

[Tommy Tainant]

Why can’t someone aspire for both? Why can’t someone aspire to raise a good family?

Lots of men on this thread telling us what is the right choice for women.

 

[Tommy Tainant]

He'll be a future politician with the party that has morals.

I look for real examples of this assertion and my eye lifgts on Lauren Boebert.Maybe the whole family is just trash but I wonder if her teenage son might have not had kids or robbed houses if Lauren had been around the home rather than making a fool of herself in DC.. Is it just possible ?

 

[Anathema]

No one doesn't need those things. But if one wants those things then they may have to focus on work rather than having a family. A growing number want nice things too. Can we blame them?

If you want those things, work harder or better. Make better decisions. Don’t expect buy a $200K house on a gas station salary.

Well you were smart. Waited until you were financially stable and found the one that agrees with your lifestyle

It wasn’t so much a choice. It took that long to actually find a traditional, conservative woman.

Corporate greed over the health of society. Thats what I said..
You know that people who buy things keep the economy going ?

Somebody having a 73” tv doesn’t improve society. A proper nuclear family does.

I don’t give a fuck about the economy. I’m interested in Right and Wring. Nothing else.

 

[BULLDOG]

Then they should “choose” to not have children.

That's not your choice to make

 

[Coyote]

“More” implies a “less.”

There is no denigrating “just a”.

 

[HeyNorm]

That's not your choice to make

Neither is it the child’s dummy.

 

[HeyNorm]

I guess that you have a link to that. Meanwhile come back from the 50s Norm.

Basic economics dufus.

 

[BULLDOG]

Neither is it the child’s dummy.

I agree. The woman, with the advice of her doctor should make that decision.

 

[progressive hunter]

I agree. The woman, with the advice of her doctor should make that decision.

when does the childs opinion get heard??

 

[HeyNorm]

when does the childs opinion get heard??

As if the left really cared.