I really don't think a white man is qualified to make the comment you made in the quote, given the deep dysfunctionality of white culture. Your entire culture is built on a lie. What you display here is the learned behavior that keeps your culture dysfunctional and infects the overall American culture -white racism. You ignore just how f-d up white culture is to try making comments about ours.
“Racism has distorted reality for many whites. Teachings about history, the world, the pursuits of thought, expressions of culture, and personal relationships have for most whites been both limited and false.”
-Horace Seldon