Well, yeah, the labels "conservative" and "liberal" lack much agreed-upon meaning. I think foxfyre tried to sketch out what she sees as "conservative" but it might be fairer to call her a libertarian.
Agreed.
[The confusion stems from the fact that the GOP has formed a coalition from radically diverse groups. The result is a kind of incoherence that thrives amongst uncritical consumers of political brands, e.g., white men clutching their steering wheel in anger, listening to paid agitators blame America's ills on everything but the corporations who control the political process]
Parts of the American Conservative movement favor heavy government intervention when it comes to morality, religion, and/or traditionalism; whereas parts of the libertarian movement simply do not. One need only look to the FCC (specifically the control over entertainment content) or the war on drugs to see where these groups differ.
The intellectual laziness of the OP's list goes even deeper. Libertarians, Neoliberals (Reagan), and Conservatives all have different feelings about the kind of intervention proposed by [say] the Cold War and War on Terrorism. Some Conservatives opposed the Marshall Plan & Truman's military machinations on the grounds that America would go bankrupt trying to make a better world based on a singularly imposed top-down model of democracy or free market capitalism, i.e., Washington can't run a Laundromat, yet you want them to police the globe, build nations, and impose market discipline
all over the globe? Libertarians warned of the law of unintended consequences, e.g., every time Washington tries to do something big and control things, they make things worse. . . (eventually). Whereas neoliberals (comprised of anti-communist cold war liberals turned conservative) believed there was no part of the globe Washington should not try to "improve", e.g., see Reagan, Clinton, and Bush's policies in South America, the Caribbean theater, Africa, Eastern Europe, and the Middle East.
SADLY: by the time Bush spoke of nation building on Arab soil, there was no longer a real Conservative party to oppose him. The old party is gone; it collapsed under the weight of all the contradictory groups that collected under the tent. This resulted in the kind of thin talking points seen in the OP's list.
Ultimately . . . the reason the U.S. is a mess is because the population no longer does the hard work of studying policy or maintaining a coherent set of political options. Special interests have drained both parties of content; they are now merely selling political brands wrapped in rhetorical garbage for the purpose of covering-up who butters their bread. They have created an army of morons who swoon and cry when Reagan talks of the "Evil Empire" or Bush's "Freedom is on the March" or Obama's empty messianic sermons of hope. They simply don't see what is happening in the back room: big money controlling the electoral, regulatory and legislative process.
Truth be told, the OP's list, on top of being incoherent, is kind of quaint and precious, that is, he seems to believe that there is an evil government which is bent on destroying freedom, which freedom is represented by the good guys, Conservatives. Everyone knows government is a fake holding of America's largest corporations... used to absorb losses.