Wapasha
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- May 28, 2019
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Sadly, sometimes a married couple just cannot meet minimum standards unless they both work. and this is not about them.I agree 100%. Wife and mother should be first priority. That doesn't mean a woman can't have other interests beyond the home. All she has to do is get her husband's permission, and she is free to become a nurse, or a waitress, or even a secretary. All those other professions would probably be too stressful for the weaker sex.
If the husband can earn enough to get by, the wife should be home with the toddlers. It changes the discussion if the wife wants to work, because she doesn't want to be a freaking stay at home mother. She's making the decision to put her selfish needs first, and her children second.
You cannot give your full attention to your young children as a mother, when you chose to work a 9-5 job that you prob hate anyway You'll give almost half your paycheck to strangers to watch your kid, while you work that awesome job, that you hate, with coworkers you can't stand.
Meanwhile the daycare may not even like your children. They may not treat them kindly. A mean babysitter can be mentally and physically abusive, and start your child down the road of having insecurities, and not liking themselves, cuz they are told what a bad child they are.
These strangers babysitting your child might fill their heads full of bad habits or teach them inappropriate things. But hey, you have a job you don't like, cuz you refuse to demean yourself by being a stay at home mom.