Your Mate: Which would you prefer....

[Bonzi]

If you HAD to deal with a negative quality in your mate, would you choose:

(1) Pessimistic; or
(2) Overly Sensitive

Explain why and how you would deal with it.

 

[Wyatt earp]

That's not a good choice OP I always liked the Rebbeca demorna (spl? Think the movie risky bussiness)

Nice petite figure and street smarts from hell

I wanted that girl so bad, I married a copy of her, I loved the flowing hair, I loved the her being funny and sassy

And her being tuff


She died in 9/3/2007

 

[Pogo]

If I had to take one of them I guess I'd go with (2), overly sensitive. Because (1) would be too much of a drag. Sensitivity can at least be managed.

 

[Bonzi]

That's not a good choice OP I always liked the Rebbeca demorna (spl? Think the movie risky bussiness)

Nice petite figure and street smarts from hell

I wanted that girl so bad, I married a copy of her, I loved the flowing hair, I loved the her being funny and sassy

And her being tuff


She died in 9/3/2007

I don't believe that Rebecca DeMornay is deceased.

 

[Wyatt earp]

That's not a good choice OP I always liked the Rebbeca demorna (spl? Think the movie risky bussiness)

Nice petite figure and street smarts from hell

I wanted that girl so bad, I married a copy of her, I loved the flowing hair, I loved the her being funny and sassy

And her being tuff


She died in 9/3/2007

I don't believe that Rebecca DeMornay is deceased.

where did I say I married her?

 

[Muhammed]

If you HAD to deal with a negative quality in your mate, would you choose:

(1) Pessimistic; or
(2) Overly Sensitive

Explain why and how you would deal with it.

I'd have to say 1.

Someone who is overly sensitive can be dealt with with careful tact.

Someone who is pessimistic can drag both of you down.

 

[skye]

LOL Bonzi...are you Dr Phil or something? your relationship threads are so much fun

 

[Bonzi]

LOL Bonzi...are you Dr Phil or something? your relationship threads are so much fun

Nah... I always DID want to be a psychologist/psychiatrist however, too lazy go though all the schooling. So, I just do this for fun - I love hearing people's opinions - or just joking around about. Please feel free to join in! I should do a few about men!

 

[Delta4Embassy]

If you HAD to deal with a negative quality in your mate, would you choose:

(1) Pessimistic; or
(2) Overly Sensitive

Explain why and how you would deal with it.

Having had overly-sensitive I'd MUCH rather have pessimistic. Think hyper-sensitive people are deliberately that way to aovid any sort of critique or criticism. As a result they never improve and stay at some retarded point of emotional maturity when they assumed the too-sensitive thing.