Word to parents!!!

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    discipline your kids....no ifs ands or butts about it..stop being the kids "friend"...you are not their friend you are their parent...which means you control your kid. let me define control...your kid shuts up....if adults are talking...i do not want to talk to your kid on the phone ...they need to answer the phone and go get you...i dont care how their day is or want to hear their whining...if your kids is sassing you....or cussing you...smack said kid ..either site..ass or mouth will do....dont stand there and hang your head....


    if your kids hits you...take that kid down and plow the ground with said kid...it will only take once...

    i just dont get it...kids need boundaries and someone to care about them...being their friend is not that...its damned easy to be a bad parent....it is a lot harder to be a good one...
     
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    I approve of this message

    Other day at my friends house, their 7 year old told the father to fuck off

    After i tired to hide my grin, you saw the dad yank him ou tof the chair and a slap across the mouth

    well deserved imo

    Kid started crying, and he got sent to his room...he won't be doing that anymore.

    I said it to my wife last night...I am not our sons friend, I am his father...big difference
     
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    o and stop freaking out when your kid..says he/she hates you...most of the time this is around 11ish with boys...i dont know about girls...but guess what ...they will say they hate you ...as long as they can get their way with guilt...think about it....
     
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    when that time comes, I will just remember how many times I used to say it when shit didn tgo my way.

    I already know how its going to be, my wife is the soft one and he will be able to walk all over her...till she says./...wait till your father gets home

    I walk in and he will be sleeping in his room at 6pm
     
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    Awesome thread. Your best yet, bones. I mean that.

    Parenting is a lost art. If you're afraid to discipline your kid, you never should have had one you PUSSY.
     
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    Except let's all remember..the kid who tells his dad to fuck off learned that language from someone.

    Probably the dad. If dad is saying it to mom or to other adults, I don't see why the kid gets punished for imitating the behavior.
     
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    WOW It's nice to see like minded parenting.

    We are not their friends!
     
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    That's fine if the parents are using that language around the kids, but what of the ones who don't?

    Besides, my policy is do as I say, not as I do. My daughter knows better than to use a cuss word. If and when she ever does get the balls to use it on purpose for a malicious reason, she probably heard a friend say it and became emboldened.
     
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    I have a problem with a guy who knocks his kid around in front of other guys, who applaud him.

    I think it's a little nauseating.
     
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    my dad used to say if one of us didn't hate him on any given day (there's six of us), he wasn't doing his job.

    he was pretty smart
     

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