FLGoldilocks
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I want that balance of Neanderthal and gentleman. My boyfriend is actually pretty much perfect for me in that regard. He's possessive in the sense that he doesn't want to share me romantically or sexually with another man, but not so possessive that he drives me insane with his jealousy, doesn't get all bent out of shape because he *thinks* I looked at another guy. I know he'd do battle for me if needed, but he also lets me fight my own battles. He's there to back me up, and he'll step in and fight the fight with/for me if I can't do it alone. As for the "sammich"...."please get me a sammich" works much better (and eliminates the potential of a frying pan connecting with the back of his head), but as long as I know he isn't trying to be a jerk, I'll get him one. Only because I know he'd do the same for me, if I asked.
Dragging me off....well, if he's gonna do that, it better be to the bed, and it better be worth it, cause I'm really not into the whole "caveman" bit. And as for the mouse...yeah, he's gonna have to deal with it, because I won't. My 9 & 6 yr old sons are learning to deal with things like that, because I won't. I'm a girly girl when it comes to that.
I like to do the little "Holly Homemaker" bit, so to a degree I like him to be the big tough guy. But I also need the sweet, gentle guy who will just hold me and tell me he loves me, or cook dinner if I'm sick, stuff like that.
Dragging me off....well, if he's gonna do that, it better be to the bed, and it better be worth it, cause I'm really not into the whole "caveman" bit. And as for the mouse...yeah, he's gonna have to deal with it, because I won't. My 9 & 6 yr old sons are learning to deal with things like that, because I won't. I'm a girly girl when it comes to that.
I like to do the little "Holly Homemaker" bit, so to a degree I like him to be the big tough guy. But I also need the sweet, gentle guy who will just hold me and tell me he loves me, or cook dinner if I'm sick, stuff like that.