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I had a guy cheat on me, it about killed me I was so in love with him.
9 Reasons People Cheat - Love + Sex on Shine
9 Reasons People Cheat - Love + Sex on Shine
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I had a guy cheat on me, it about killed me I was so in love with him.
9 Reasons People Cheat - Love + Sex on Shine
I had a guy cheat on me, it about killed me I was so in love with him.
9 Reasons People Cheat - Love + Sex on Shine
Why is it called "cheating"?
Is monogamy a game?
Why is it called "cheating"?
Is monogamy a game?
yes
Why is it called "cheating"?
Is monogamy a game?
yes
So what is real life then?
I had a guy cheat on me, it about killed me I was so in love with him.
9 Reasons People Cheat - Love + Sex on Shine
1. Bored
I'd say this is the most common reason that people cheat.It's tough to keep that edge throughout a relationship. Things start off grand and then level off and then you both realize that it's still real life. When you meet someone else, that inaugural excitement of a new relationship kicks back in.
2. Dependence
At first glance, cheating seems like independent behavior. It could be interpreted as doing what you want, when you want. But I would argue that cheating is a dependent behavior. A cheater is dependent because they are not strong enough to break up with their significant other in order to get with the new person.
3. Confusion
Sometimes life or a particular situation can get to you. When the perfect storm of confusion is going on in your head, you make mistakes.
4. Because They Let You
If any girl ever cheated on me, I'd break up with her immediately. Forgiving a cheater is putting up with it, and starts a vicious cycle. That person who cheated may lose respect for you and might continue to cheat-because they know they can get away with it, because you'll continue to take them back.
5. Nurturing
If someone is mistreating you, then your first instinct is to get away from him or her. But sometimes it's not that simple-maybe you are raising kids together. If you feel trapped in a bad relationship, it's only natural that you will run to the open arms of a person who treats you well.
6. Revenge
This is quite simple- an eye for an eye. Cheat on them if they cheat on you. If they continuously hurt you or abuse you in some way, you do it to get them back.
7. Confirmation of Attractiveness
Sometimes when you're in a long relationship, or if your significant other is taking you for granted, you begin to wonder if you're still attractive. Perhaps, because you were out on the dating circuit, you felt more attractive when you were single. If you have an affair, you've proven that a new person can be attracted to you.
8. The Thrill
Some people just enjoy the thrill of cheating: running around secretly, risking getting caught, andcreating thrilling moments with a forbidden romance.
9. They Don't Consider It Cheating, Even Though You Might
Relationships have that grey area, usually right before you become exclusive. He thinks date #4 is when you're "together," and you think date #2 is when you're "together." If you haven't talked about exclusivity, someone may think they are well within their rights to see other people, even though the other person in the relationship may not.
I had a guy cheat on me, it about killed me I was so in love with him.
A guy will cheat for three reasons
1. He's scum.
2. He falls for another woman.
3. He isn't getting any at home.
Number 3 is the easiest for women to control. There is no reason for number 3 to happen.
I had a guy cheat on me, it about killed me I was so in love with him.
9 Reasons People Cheat - Love + Sex on Shine
They're probably settling for less til soemthing better comes along. Aren't you getting married soon ?
I had a guy cheat on me, it about killed me I was so in love with him.
9 Reasons People Cheat - Love + Sex on Shine
EchoZulu,
Are you an adult or in High School?