Why do men still try to find a good woman?

[Pedro de San Patricio]

Experience should have taught them by now that this person only exists in their heads. Honestly, you'd have to be pretty stupid to believe otherwise after the third one lied about loving you just for your body.

 

[Buzz Jenkins]

A good woman is one who has her own place to go home to at night.

 

[Bob Blaylock]

Why do men still try to find a good woman?

Experience should have taught them by now that this person only exists in their heads. Honestly, you'd have to be pretty stupid to believe otherwise after the third one lied about loving you just for your body.

They're out there. I found one, and married her twenty years ago.

I think you're problem is that you just don't have any idea of what to look for in a good woman.

 

[WinterBorn]

Finding a good woman is not rocket surgery.

Be the kind of man such a woman will want. I have found one (actually more than one). Focus on your life instead of on the search.

 

[Coloradomtnman]

I'm not trying to find a good woman because I've already found her.

If you can't find one, examine the common denominator in your situation: yourself.

 

[fbj]

I rather be the side guy

 

[MarathonMike]

Men keep trying because the reward is well worth the risk. They aren't easy to find, and single women will tell you the same about men.

 

[Muhammed]

I rather be the side guy

I've been the "side guy". It's not that great.

 

[Pedro de San Patricio]

I rather be the side guy

I've been the "side guy". It's not that great.

Especially when you find out you've been the side guy after ten months of believing her when she says you're her only one.

 

[fbj]

I rather be the side guy

I've been the "side guy". It's not that great.

Why? You don't have to give her emotional and financial support

 

[fbj]

I rather be the side guy

I've been the "side guy". It's not that great.

Especially when you find out you've been the side guy after ten months of believing her when she says you're her only one.

Why the fuck was you catching feelings? LMAO

 

[Muhammed]

I rather be the side guy

I've been the "side guy". It's not that great.

Especially when you find out you've been the side guy after ten months of believing her when she says you're her only one.

Guys my age don't count by months.

 

[PK1]

Experience should have taught them by now that this person only exists in their heads. Honestly, you'd have to be pretty stupid to believe otherwise after the third one lied about loving you just for your body.

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"loving you just for your body."

I thought that was funny because women usually say that about men.

In my younger days (< 33), i had fun dating without long-term expectations, but it did get a bit frustrating when i started looking for a marriage mate.
After focusing on the attributes that matter for such a long-term relationship, and being realistic about my "check-off" list, I found a person that i married & we reproduced multiple times.
Maybe i was lucky, but i think it was my practicality that made the difference.
.

 

[fbj]

Experience should have taught them by now that this person only exists in their heads. Honestly, you'd have to be pretty stupid to believe otherwise after the third one lied about loving you just for your body.

---
"loving you just for your body."

I thought that was funny because women usually say that about men.

In my younger days (< 33), i had fun dating without long-term expectations, but it did get a bit frustrating when i started looking for a marriage mate.
After focusing on the attributes that matter for such a long-term relationship, and being realistic about my "check-off" list, I found a person that i married & we reproduced multiple times.
Maybe i was lucky, but i think it was my practicality that made the difference.
.

All women have backup lovers

 

[Muhammed]

I rather be the side guy

I've been the "side guy". It's not that great.

Why? You don't have to give her emotional and financial support

Why don't you? Because you're incapable. Plain and simple.

 

[PK1]

Experience should have taught them by now that this person only exists in their heads. Honestly, you'd have to be pretty stupid to believe otherwise after the third one lied about loving you just for your body.

---
"loving you just for your body."

I thought that was funny because women usually say that about men.

In my younger days (< 33), i had fun dating without long-term expectations, but it did get a bit frustrating when i started looking for a marriage mate.
After focusing on the attributes that matter for such a long-term relationship, and being realistic about my "check-off" list, I found a person that i married & we reproduced multiple times.
Maybe i was lucky, but i think it was my practicality that made the difference.
.

All women have backup lovers

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That's not only a too-general statement, but it's obviously false, if one has enough experience (with aging patients). Many older women in a secure relationship (compatible marriage w/ kids) lose interest in sex. However, if they become single, that would change their "interest".
.

 

[fbj]

Experience should have taught them by now that this person only exists in their heads. Honestly, you'd have to be pretty stupid to believe otherwise after the third one lied about loving you just for your body.

---
"loving you just for your body."

I thought that was funny because women usually say that about men.

In my younger days (< 33), i had fun dating without long-term expectations, but it did get a bit frustrating when i started looking for a marriage mate.
After focusing on the attributes that matter for such a long-term relationship, and being realistic about my "check-off" list, I found a person that i married & we reproduced multiple times.
Maybe i was lucky, but i think it was my practicality that made the difference.
.

All women have backup lovers

---
That's not only a too-general statement, but it's obviously false, if one has enough experience (with aging patients). Many older women in a secure relationship (compatible marriage w/ kids) lose interest in sex. However, if they become single, that would change their "interest".
.

Lose interest in sex?

 

[sealybobo]

Finding a good woman is not rocket surgery.

Be the kind of man such a woman will want. I have found one (actually more than one). Focus on your life instead of on the search.

You mean rocket science or brain surgery? Clearly intelligence isn't important.

 

[sealybobo]

I'm not trying to find a good woman because I've already found her.

If you can't find one, examine the common denominator in your situation: yourself.

That's true. My buddy's find hot women all the time. What am I doing wrong? I know.

 

[Muhammed]

Experience should have taught them by now that this person only exists in their heads. Honestly, you'd have to be pretty stupid to believe otherwise after the third one lied about loving you just for your body.

---
"loving you just for your body."

I thought that was funny because women usually say that about men.

In my younger days (< 33), i had fun dating without long-term expectations, but it did get a bit frustrating when i started looking for a marriage mate.
After focusing on the attributes that matter for such a long-term relationship, and being realistic about my "check-off" list, I found a person that i married & we reproduced multiple times.
Maybe i was lucky, but i think it was my practicality that made the difference.
.

When you are less than 33 are you seriously looking?