I was having a conversation with someone tonight and the subject of my avatar came up. "He saw your avatar" It was fine but it got me to thinking... Who knows you are here at the USBM? Does your husband/wife know you are here? Does you partner/significant other know you are here? My husband knows i am here and he knows my avatar too. He knows what i think and feel so my posting my thoughts and feelings is not a secret to him. He listens to me talk about all of you too! So who knows, only the shadow or others?