When men don’t want sex

[Douger]

You can't have porn AND the real thing ?

From what I gleaned from the article, this is not the case....unless you count faking it the "real thing."

I guess the point is that women aren't very used to hearing a man say no and don't take the rejection very lightly.

You'd have to be pretty nasty, physically OR mentally, for me to turn down a quick romp.
No. I wouldn't fuck Loosely Lohand or Britney for the latter reason.

 

[Samson]

I will tell you that it can be very interesting to see the reaction of a woman when you tell her that you're not interested in having sex with her at that time.

Several years ago I dated a lady who invited me into her home after our third date. We sat around for a while in her living room talking. At which point she looked over at me and asked, quite directly... "Well, are you going to make a move on me or not?" I informed her that No, I was not intending on making "a move" on her that evening.

She was rather shocked and demanded to know why. I told her the same thing that I'd told her the first time sex had even come up, during our second date.... I don't believe casual sex is appropriate and don't engage in it. Sex is for long-term, committed relationships so far as I'm concerned.

The look of shock on her face was almost as if I'd told her that I didn't have a penis, or something to that effect. She all but bodily threw me out of her condo and told me that she didn't want to ever hear from or see me again, which at that point was fine with me.

"When men don't want sex"

When the woman has more hair on her body than I do. OR she smells like the incense from an old hippy head shop.

You're the picky one, ain't ya.

 

[dilloduck]

From what I gleaned from the article, this is not the case....unless you count faking it the "real thing."

I guess the point is that women aren't very used to hearing a man say no and don't take the rejection very lightly.

You'd have to be pretty nasty, physically OR mentally, for me to turn down a quick romp.
No. I wouldn't fuck Loosely Lohand or Britney for the latter reason.

I bet if they wanted to romp every 5mins you'd be begging for mercy.

 

[Samson]

From what I gleaned from the article, this is not the case....unless you count faking it the "real thing."

I guess the point is that women aren't very used to hearing a man say no and don't take the rejection very lightly.

You'd have to be pretty nasty, physically OR mentally, for me to turn down a quick romp.
No. I wouldn't fuck Loosely Lohand or Britney for the latter reason.

I don't believe you:

Even if I was jerking off 500X the norm, I could do Lindsey

Brittany would need to wear a wig:

 

[xsited1]

When men don’t want sex

Ian Kerner, a sexuality counselor and New York Times best-selling author, blogs about sex on Thursdays on The Chart. Read more from him at his website, GoodInBed.

“Not tonight, honey. I have a headache.” How many times has a guy heard that before? Husbands around the world are all too familiar with being sexually rejected. But now, more than ever, those words, (or some variation), are being expressed by men, to their female partners. While the conventional wisdom has been that it’s usually the woman in the relationship who inevitably loses interest in sex, the opposite is often true. Low male desire is at all-time high, and is likely to occur for any number of reasons:

When men don

Men decline sex? Now that's just silly.

 

[dilloduck]

I've yet to know a man outlast a women especially a mature experienced one but we do have our pride I guess.

 

[Samson]

I've yet to know a man outlast a women especially a mature experienced one but we do have our pride I guess.

Um........you've watched, and then taken samples.......?




Unless an octopus was involved, I'm afraid that is weird.

 

[dilloduck]

I've yet to know a man outlast a women especially a mature experienced one but we do have our pride I guess.

Um........you've watched, and then taken samples.......?




Unless an octopus was involved, I'm afraid that is weird.

Ya Ya---all these men who can go 24/7 and not skip a beat.

 

[Lumpy 1]

I've yet to know a man outlast a women especially a mature experienced one but we do have our pride I guess.

You must be kidding...it's simple..Let the Gal take a superior position, burn out her energy and "O's" then finish up.. sheesh...

 

[Samson]

I've yet to know a man outlast a women especially a mature experienced one but we do have our pride I guess.

You must be kidding...it's simple..Let the Gal take a superior position, burn out her energy and "O's" then finish up.. sheesh...

Can I watch TV, or read the paper?

 

[Lumpy 1]

I've yet to know a man outlast a women especially a mature experienced one but we do have our pride I guess.

You must be kidding...it's simple..Let the Gal take a superior position, burn out her energy and "O's" then finish up.. sheesh...

Can I watch TV, or read the paper?

...I suppose.. you do have to think about other things at times...

 

[AquaAthena]

considering the luck you've had maybe it should be your style.

No, not really. For some of us it's more important to be in the right type or relationship than it is to be in just any relationship. I'd rather spend my life as a bachelor than to spend it in and out of relationships that aren't what I'm looking for.

That is how I feel. If one is only interested in casual sex, the whole experience is diminished and much less satisfying. It would leave one feeling empty, I think. There has to be other things in common that don't involve carnality. The more meaningful the experience the greater the pleasure.

 

[Anachronism]

That is how I feel. If one is only interested in casual sex, the whole experience is diminished and much less satisfying. It would leave one feeling empty, I think. There has to be other things in common that don't involve carnality. The more meaningful the experience the greater the pleasure.

Very true. The problem in my case being that what I'm seeking is much more of a traditional type relationship than most modern women are seeking, which adds a second strike against me, for most of them.

 

[dilloduck]

That is how I feel. If one is only interested in casual sex, the whole experience is diminished and much less satisfying. It would leave one feeling empty, I think. There has to be other things in common that don't involve carnality. The more meaningful the experience the greater the pleasure.

Very true. The problem in my case being that what I'm seeking is much more of a traditional type relationship than most modern women are seeking, which adds a second strike against me, for most of them.

You've nearly succeeded in making it impossible for yourself. Keep trying and you'll get there.

 

[Samson]

That is how I feel. If one is only interested in casual sex, the whole experience is diminished and much less satisfying. It would leave one feeling empty, I think. There has to be other things in common that don't involve carnality. The more meaningful the experience the greater the pleasure.

Very true. The problem in my case being that what I'm seeking is much more of a traditional type relationship than most modern women are seeking, which adds a second strike against me, for most of them.

Modern AMERICAN women.

In almost every other country on earth, including those in Europe, you'll find that women are more traditional.

 

[AquaAthena]

That is how I feel. If one is only interested in casual sex, the whole experience is diminished and much less satisfying. It would leave one feeling empty, I think. There has to be other things in common that don't involve carnality. The more meaningful the experience the greater the pleasure.

Very true. The problem in my case being that what I'm seeking is much more of a traditional type relationship than most modern women are seeking, which adds a second strike against me, for most of them.

I do understand where you are coming from. Women I know, will go to bed with a guy fast! These are women looking for permanence. I tell them they are working against themselves.

 

[Lumpy 1]

That is how I feel. If one is only interested in casual sex, the whole experience is diminished and much less satisfying. It would leave one feeling empty, I think. There has to be other things in common that don't involve carnality. The more meaningful the experience the greater the pleasure.

Very true. The problem in my case being that what I'm seeking is much more of a traditional type relationship than most modern women are seeking, which adds a second strike against me, for most of them.

Just wondering... did you grow up with more of a female influence on your perspectives?

 

[dilloduck]

That is how I feel. If one is only interested in casual sex, the whole experience is diminished and much less satisfying. It would leave one feeling empty, I think. There has to be other things in common that don't involve carnality. The more meaningful the experience the greater the pleasure.

Very true. The problem in my case being that what I'm seeking is much more of a traditional type relationship than most modern women are seeking, which adds a second strike against me, for most of them.

I do understand where you are coming from. Women I know, will go to bed with a guy fast! These are women looking for permanence. I tell them they are working against themselves.

Ahh the theory of the golden pussy ? Make them work for it and commit before any sex ?
Might be nice in theory.

 

[American Horse]

I will tell you that it can be very interesting to see the reaction of a woman when you tell her that you're not interested in having sex with her at that time.

Several years ago I dated a lady who invited me into her home after our third date. We sat around for a while in her living room talking. At which point she looked over at me and asked, quite directly... "Well, are you going to make a move on me or not?" I informed her that No, I was not intending on making "a move" on her that evening.

She was rather shocked and demanded to know why. I told her the same thing that I'd told her the first time sex had even come up, during our second date.... I don't believe casual sex is appropriate and don't engage in it. Sex is for long-term, committed relationships so far as I'm concerned.

The look of shock on her face was almost as if I'd told her that I didn't have a penis, or something to that effect. She all but bodily threw me out of her condo and told me that she didn't want to ever hear from or see me again, which at that point was fine with me.

That incident made her feel cheap and slutty. In that case she would never want to see or talk with you again

 

[Samson]

Very true. The problem in my case being that what I'm seeking is much more of a traditional type relationship than most modern women are seeking, which adds a second strike against me, for most of them.

I do understand where you are coming from. Women I know, will go to bed with a guy fast! These are women looking for permanence. I tell them they are working against themselves.

Ahh the theory of the golden pussy ? Make them work for it and commit before any sex ?
Might be nice in theory.

You've never been there.