What purity rings wind up doing

Delta4Embassy

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"There’s been a lot of attention on Jonas’ dating and sex life, and those purity rings the three Jonas brothers used to wear, but he said they only “shaped my view of the importance of sex.”"
Nick Jonas Talks Miley Purity Rings and What s a No-Fly Zone Sex Deal-Breaker ExtraTV.com

If you're wearing a ring mean to symbolize your choice to remain celibate until marriage, instead of achieving that, it's more likely to make you think about sex every time you notice it. And if you're constantly thinking about sex, it's only a matter of time before you end up having sex. Or more likely, wind up having sex but calling it not-sex. :)

Choosing to be celibate is fine so long as you're doing it for the right reasons and not because you believe sex is sinful or something to be avoided unless some specific circumstnaces get met first like getting married. If you maintain that opinion, you're just going to get married simply to have sex guilt-free instead for love and making the decision to be with someone for the next several decades of your life.

Any foci meant to remind you about something like sex is only going to put sex in your conscious awareness every time you notice whatever the item is.

If you really wanna be celibate masturbate every day. If you're desires are being unfulfilled they'll overwhelm you eventually (ask a Catholic priest.) But if you satisfy your desires on your own, the inclination to look at others as means to an end is much less and being celibate is a lot easier.
 

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