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No, Im not naive. I was just wondering where people draw the line between having sex and not having sex.
Mostly, I am curious to see if what I think people think is accurate.
That and Im bored.
That's a pretty rigid definition.
What about medical exams?
I'd add "for the purpose of erotic stimulation," but that isn't always the case. I suppose "contact with a person's genitals for the purpose of erotic stimulation" is a better definition of "sex," simply because it's generally true.
What if there is no contact, but someone masturbates in front of another?
so if you are fully clothed and dry humping and tounging her like a mad man....til you both climax...that aint sex....
No, Im not naive. I was just wondering where people draw the line between having sex and not having sex.
Mostly, I am curious to see if what I think people think is accurate.
That and Im bored.
somehow i don't think you're asking about the mechanics. do you mean what's the purpose?
i think there's different kinds of sex like there's different kinds of love. and where one draws the line is probably a combination of physical desire and emotional desire, differing from person to person, varying based on the time of life you're in and what needs you have at the time.
I THINK SEX SHOULD HAPPEN when your married thats because im a christian and i was alwayes told by my grandmother that passed away that your your husband will be honored to know that you saved yourself for him and she was right my man loves to know that im the only one he's had... sex is love but now adays its just fuckig laid but its away to show love to the one your with
I THINK SEX SHOULD HAPPEN when your married thats because im a christian and i was alwayes told by my grandmother that passed away that your your husband will be honored to know that you saved yourself for him and she was right my man loves to know that im the only one he's had... sex is love but now adays its just fuckig laid but its away to show love to the one your with
I THINK SEX SHOULD HAPPEN when your married thats because im a christian and i was alwayes told by my grandmother that passed away that your your husband will be honored to know that you saved yourself for him and she was right my man loves to know that im the only one he's had... sex is love but now adays its just fuckig laid but its away to show love to the one your with
Did he save himself for you as well, or is that another of the double-standards that we are taught is ok?
You mean you would want an inexperienced guy fumbling around not knowing what he was doing?
Really?
You mean you would want an inexperienced guy fumbling around not knowing what he was doing?
Really?
I didn't say that was my preference, just asking a question.
Do men really want an inexperienced girl/woman fumbling around not knowing what she is doing?
You mean you would want an inexperienced guy fumbling around not knowing what he was doing?
Really?
I didn't say that was my preference, just asking a question.
Do men really want an inexperienced girl/woman fumbling around not knowing what she is doing?
I can't speak for all men, but I certainly never have. I like women that are quite well versed in what they like and aren't afraid to have it.
I can't speak for all men, but I certainly never have. I like women that are quite well versed in what they like and aren't afraid to have it.
Kind of my point. Why should a woman be expected to "save" herself for a guy who hasn't? Is it really that great of a thing? Maybe she's missing out and will end up having crummy sex for the rest of her life because she doesn't know any difference.
No, Im not naive. I was just wondering where people draw the line between having sex and not having sex.
Mostly, I am curious to see if what I think people think is accurate.
That and Im bored.
somehow i don't think you're asking about the mechanics. do you mean what's the purpose?
i think there's different kinds of sex like there's different kinds of love. and where one draws the line is probably a combination of physical desire and emotional desire, differing from person to person, varying based on the time of life you're in and what needs you have at the time.
Can you divorce physical desire (and the physical act) from emotional desire (and emotional connection)?
Understanding, perhaps, that where both are present in high degree may be the "Best Sex" (assuming there is such a thing), but you may not always have "the Best Sex" for one reason or another, so would you have sex that is high in physical desire and low in emotional desire/connection?
Put more simply, would you engage in sport fucking just cuz it feels good, knowing ahead of time that there is almost no chance of the emotional side being present?
There are women who don't know what they are doing ?
There are women who don't know what they are doing ?
Well, sure.
Just as there are probably some men who don't know what they're doing.
Women's general perspective of sex as emotional and men's general perspective of sex as recreational (not saying these are unbreakable molds), are just components of evolutionary biology, IMO. Men had to spread their seed as widely as possible to ensure reproduction, while women had to carefully select partners who would protect them during her pregnancy and nursing periods, causing them to be choosy.
