What if it was something else like a church group meeting (I'm trying to think of something that is mandatory in regards to church)? Would that be better or worse than service? Is there is a difference between Wed and Sun services or you enjoy Wed night service less just because of your circumstances?. I enjoy Sun services due to the turnout. I probably would not enjoy going a second night unless it was a special holiday service, but I'm not like you. My church has group meetings the other days/nights. If we had a Wed night service, I think it's for people who cannot make it on Sun and not twice a week. The attendance card is interesting. Not something I'd want, but something to make you feel guilty and go (?).