We Are ALL Gay

[William Joyce]

...and Lezzie, and Bisexual, and TS/TV/CD...and probably much more.

No human adult is asexual. Some humans are celibate, but actions are not personality...they are choices. Human sexuality -- including YOURS, Dear Reader -- is not black and white...it is not binary.

"Male or female."

"Gay or straight."

Gender ambidextious-ness and pansexual desire is a river of ginormous proportions running through ALL of US.

There is no "us" and "them". There are folks whose behavior is limited to fucking only members of the other gender. But that's a choice. Some choose to do this out of fear, or confusion. A few folks -- not many -- have so little attraction to same-gender folks that they are not motivated to seek out sex with anyone but the "opposite sex".

You can not "lose your manhood" and no one "turns into a woman" except by surgery. Gay men are as varied -- and include as high a proportion of true motherfuckers -- as "straight men".

I get the feeling that many people are comfy with bisexual chicks having sex with each other, but squorked by lesbians or gay men doing the very same thing. And some folks seem utterly unwilling to accept or treat with dignity those who are transsexual or transvesities (loosely defined, a transvesite is a gender dismorphic person who does not at present seek surgery to correct the genitalia to match his or her brain's sex/gender identity).

And why in the world even bother to mention cross-dressing? Almost every man has done this, and most do it alot. (In our society, no garment is off-limits to females and thus, chicks cannot cross-dress.) Not many men are able or willing to cross dress anywhere but in secret. But, c'mon now, it cannot have escaped all y'alls notice that 99.9% of males want to try cross-dressing because it has the allure of the forbidden. Many/some men find cross-dressing gets them in a mood they cannot easily get into otherwise, so they keep it up.

It makes as much damned sense to be hateful or confused by cross-dressers as it does to hate on masterbaters.

We are humans, not manufactured goods run off an assembly line identical to spec.

Embrace your gender-ambidextriousness. Celebrate your pansexuality.

And stop writing all these sexual hatred-filled posts on USMB or anywhere else.

Peace out, folks.

Lady! Or gender-unconfined being? Whatever you want to be called.

I'm going to write whatever the fuck I want to write.

"We" may not all fit YOUR liberal la-dee-da assumptions about anything.

We can IN FACT generalize that most males like to fuck women, and most women like to fuck men. That's because it FEELS FANTASTIC, not because we were brainwashed into it by Rush Limbaugh.

A man sticking his dick in another man's asshole isn't the same thing. Disease spreads that way. A little thing called AIDS.

It's YOU who feel insecure about things, because YOU want to force your beliefs on the rest of us... all while preening as the one who's open-minded! Typical liberal hypocrisy. YOU might want to lick beaver, and you lessen your feelings of oddness by announcing to the rest of us that we all "must" have homosexual urges that we're just repressing, darnit.

Vive la difference.

 

[Madeline]

...and Lezzie, and Bisexual, and TS/TV/CD...and probably much more.

No human adult is asexual. Some humans are celibate, but actions are not personality...they are choices. Human sexuality -- including YOURS, Dear Reader -- is not black and white...it is not binary.

"Male or female."

"Gay or straight."

Gender ambidextious-ness and pansexual desire is a river of ginormous proportions running through ALL of US.

There is no "us" and "them". There are folks whose behavior is limited to fucking only members of the other gender. But that's a choice. Some choose to do this out of fear, or confusion. A few folks -- not many -- have so little attraction to same-gender folks that they are not motivated to seek out sex with anyone but the "opposite sex".

You can not "lose your manhood" and no one "turns into a woman" except by surgery. Gay men are as varied -- and include as high a proportion of true motherfuckers -- as "straight men".

I get the feeling that many people are comfy with bisexual chicks having sex with each other, but squorked by lesbians or gay men doing the very same thing. And some folks seem utterly unwilling to accept or treat with dignity those who are transsexual or transvesities (loosely defined, a transvesite is a gender dismorphic person who does not at present seek surgery to correct the genitalia to match his or her brain's sex/gender identity).

And why in the world even bother to mention cross-dressing? Almost every man has done this, and most do it alot. (In our society, no garment is off-limits to females and thus, chicks cannot cross-dress.) Not many men are able or willing to cross dress anywhere but in secret. But, c'mon now, it cannot have escaped all y'alls notice that 99.9% of males want to try cross-dressing because it has the allure of the forbidden. Many/some men find cross-dressing gets them in a mood they cannot easily get into otherwise, so they keep it up.

It makes as much damned sense to be hateful or confused by cross-dressers as it does to hate on masterbaters.

We are humans, not manufactured goods run off an assembly line identical to spec.

Embrace your gender-ambidextriousness. Celebrate your pansexuality.

And stop writing all these sexual hatred-filled posts on USMB or anywhere else.

Peace out, folks.

Lady! Or gender-unconfined being? Whatever you want to be called.

I'm going to write whatever the fuck I want to write.

"We" may not all fit YOUR liberal la-dee-da assumptions about anything.

We can IN FACT generalize that most males like to fuck women, and most women like to fuck men. That's because it FEELS FANTASTIC, not because we were brainwashed into it by Rush Limbaugh.

A man sticking his dick in another man's asshole isn't the same thing. Disease spreads that way. A little thing called AIDS.

It's YOU who feel insecure about things, because YOU want to force your beliefs on the rest of us... all while preening as the one who's open-minded! Typical liberal hypocrisy. YOU might want to lick beaver, and you lessen your feelings of oddness by announcing to the rest of us that we all "must" have homosexual urges that we're just repressing, darnit.

Vive la difference.

There's not a thing wrong with male and female sexual encounters. NOR is there a thing wrong with any OTHER sex act between any other configuration of adults who have not been coerced.

You want to be treated with dignity? Fine by me...but you had best do everyone else the same way.

 

[PixieStix]

We Are ALL Gay

I can tell you for a fact, no, we're not.

rdean, not all of us have intimate sexual encounters with same gender-folk....but ALL of us have wanted to.

We are all gay "in our hearts", our secret thoughts, our desires. But being adults, we make choices as to which desires we will express...hopefully because those we select will best lead us to a fulfilling intimate life.

Speak for yourself Maddie, shees

 

[tommywho70x]

You just told us for a fact that you are.

We do not all have pansexual lives. Very few of us do so. Most of us settle into primary pair bonds, and the majority of us choose a partner of the opposite gender. These behaviors are a result of our social conditioning, our ethics and our beliefs about which path will most likely lead to happiness.

No one screws every adult he or she has a sexual thought about. But all of us have experienced desires that kinda sorta seemed out of sync with what we believed our sexual nature to be. I just don't understand how ALL of us could be having the same experiences/interior life and yet so many of us believe we are ALONE in this regard.

Is it just me, or is the giant blue font
Annoying as fucking hell?

maybe the lady has a slight visual impairment.

it's certainly nowhere near as annoying as having to read through a half dozen consecutive posts that should have only been one.

 

[Madeline]

We do not all have pansexual lives. Very few of us do so. Most of us settle into primary pair bonds, and the majority of us choose a partner of the opposite gender. These behaviors are a result of our social conditioning, our ethics and our beliefs about which path will most likely lead to happiness.

No one screws every adult he or she has a sexual thought about. But all of us have experienced desires that kinda sorta seemed out of sync with what we believed our sexual nature to be. I just don't understand how ALL of us could be having the same experiences/interior life and yet so many of us believe we are ALONE in this regard.

Is it just me, or is the giant blue font
Annoying as fucking hell?

maybe the lady has a slight visual impairment.

it's certainly nowhere near as annoying as having to read through a half dozen consecutive posts that should have only been one.

Quick Links--->Edit Options-->Edit Ignore List, William Joyce.

Otherwise, go piss up a rope. I do not have to explain or justify a post appearance that does not to conform to YOUR expectations or wishes. 99.9% of the bitching I hear about post pimping has to do with WHAT I have said, not the font in which I chose to say it. I'm altogether over coddling cowards on USMB who do not want to tangle with me on the ISSUE, and try and snipe at me about my post's appearance instead.

I'm so sorry the news that you are somewhat gay upset you. But if you want to debate THAT with me, leave off crying over bullshit that we both know makes no fucking difference.

tommywho, thankies for being a stand-up guy.

 

[The Infidel]

Lady! Or gender-unconfined being? Whatever you want to be called.

I'm going to write whatever the fuck I want to write.

"We" may not all fit YOUR liberal la-dee-da assumptions about anything.

We can IN FACT generalize that most males like to fuck women, and most women like to fuck men. That's because it FEELS FANTASTIC, not because we were brainwashed into it by Rush Limbaugh.


It's YOU who feel insecure about things, because YOU want to force your beliefs on the rest of us... all while preening as the one who's open-minded! Typical liberal hypocrisy. YOU might want to lick beaver, and you lessen your feelings of oddness by announcing to the rest of us that we all "must" have homosexual urges that we're just repressing, darnit.

Vive la difference.

Here here....


Im not going to bother trying to debate a "gay activist"... its totally piontless, but it was a fun read.

 

[del]

We Are ALL Gay

I can tell you for a fact, no, we're not.

rdean, not all of us have intimate sexual encounters with same gender-folk....but ALL of us have wanted to.

We are all gay "in our hearts", our secret thoughts, our desires. But being adults, we make choices as to which desires we will express...hopefully because those we select will best lead us to a fulfilling intimate life.

project much?

 

[Big Black Dog]

We Are ALL Gay

I can tell you for a fact, no, we're not.

rdean, not all of us have intimate sexual encounters with same gender-folk....but ALL of us have wanted to.

We are all gay "in our hearts", our secret thoughts, our desires. But being adults, we make choices as to which desires we will express...hopefully because those we select will best lead us to a fulfilling intimate life.

I think this must be the most fucked up thing I have ever read in my life. I can asure you, dear poster, that I am not "gay". I think you've been badly misinformed. Either that or you're stupid.

 

[Liability]

What a fucking retarded thread.

Oh wait.

It's a Madmutt original (the stupid font color is a dead give-away, as is the retarded thesis expressed in the OP).

I am not at all gay.

I am a committed hetero.

And I sure as HELL could get laid.

If my wife would just let me date.

 

[Madeline]

Lady! Or gender-unconfined being? Whatever you want to be called.

I'm going to write whatever the fuck I want to write.

"We" may not all fit YOUR liberal la-dee-da assumptions about anything.

We can IN FACT generalize that most males like to fuck women, and most women like to fuck men. That's because it FEELS FANTASTIC, not because we were brainwashed into it by Rush Limbaugh.


It's YOU who feel insecure about things, because YOU want to force your beliefs on the rest of us... all while preening as the one who's open-minded! Typical liberal hypocrisy. YOU might want to lick beaver, and you lessen your feelings of oddness by announcing to the rest of us that we all "must" have homosexual urges that we're just repressing, darnit.

Vive la difference.

Here here....


Im not going to bother trying to debate a "gay activist"... its totally piontless, but it was a fun read.

Repress much?

Have hysterical meltdowns often, or just when confronted by the possibility that you too have had "gay" desires?

 

[Gunny]

...and Lezzie, and Bisexual, and TS/TV/CD...and probably much more.

No human adult is asexual. Some humans are celibate, but actions are not personality...they are choices. Human sexuality -- including YOURS, Dear Reader -- is not black and white...it is not binary.

"Male or female."

"Gay or straight."

Gender ambidextious-ness and pansexual desire is a river of ginormous proportions running through ALL of US.

There is no "us" and "them". There are folks whose behavior is limited to fucking only members of the other gender. But that's a choice. Some choose to do this out of fear, or confusion. A few folks -- not many -- have so little attraction to same-gender folks that they are not motivated to seek out sex with anyone but the "opposite sex".

You can not "lose your manhood" and no one "turns into a woman" except by surgery. Gay men are as varied -- and include as high a proportion of true motherfuckers -- as "straight men".

I get the feeling that many people are comfy with bisexual chicks having sex with each other, but squorked by lesbians or gay men doing the very same thing. And some folks seem utterly unwilling to accept or treat with dignity those who are transsexual or transvesities (loosely defined, a transvesite is a gender dismorphic person who does not at present seek surgery to correct the genitalia to match his or her brain's sex/gender identity).

And why in the world even bother to mention cross-dressing? Almost every man has done this, and most do it alot. (In our society, no garment is off-limits to females and thus, chicks cannot cross-dress.) Not many men are able or willing to cross dress anywhere but in secret. But, c'mon now, it cannot have escaped all y'alls notice that 99.9% of males want to try cross-dressing because it has the allure of the forbidden. Many/some men find cross-dressing gets them in a mood they cannot easily get into otherwise, so they keep it up.

It makes as much damned sense to be hateful or confused by cross-dressers as it does to hate on masterbaters.

We are humans, not manufactured goods run off an assembly line identical to spec.

Embrace your gender-ambidextriousness. Celebrate your pansexuality.

And stop writing all these sexual hatred-filled posts on USMB or anywhere else.

Peace out, folks.

Whatever.

 

[Madeline]

We Are ALL Gay

I can tell you for a fact, no, we're not.

rdean, not all of us have intimate sexual encounters with same gender-folk....but ALL of us have wanted to.

We are all gay "in our hearts", our secret thoughts, our desires. But being adults, we make choices as to which desires we will express...hopefully because those we select will best lead us to a fulfilling intimate life.

I think this must be the most fucked up thing I have ever read in my life. I can asure you, dear poster, that I am not "gay". I think you've been badly misinformed. Either that or you're stupid.

Count Dracula, there have only been two major surveys of sexual behavior in American adults, so there is limited empirical data. One by Alfred Kinsey, and one by William Masters and Virgina Johnson. ALL of the data has shown that MOST (virtually all) heterosexual adults have had same-sex desires they have not acted on. If you'd like to debate this point with me, by all means, let's do so.

The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction

At the beginning of the 20th century, early theoretical discussions in the field of psychoanalysis posited original bisexuality in human psychological development. Quantitative studies by Alfred Kinsey in the 1940s and Dr. Fritz Klein's sexual orientation grid in the 1980s find distributions similar to those postulated by their predecessors.

Many modern studies, most notably Sexual Behavior in the Human Male by Alfred Kinsey, have found that the majority of humans have had both heterosexual and homosexual experiences or sensations and are bisexual. Contemporary scientific research suggests that the majority of the human population is bisexual, adhering to a fluid sexual scale rather than a category, as Western society typically views sexual nature. However, social pressures influence people to adhere to categories or labels rather than behave in a manner that more closely resembles their nature as suggested by this research.

Kinsey himself, along with current sex therapists, focused on the historicity and fluidity of sexual orientation. Kinsey's studies consistently found sexual orientation to be something that evolves in many directions over a person's lifetime; rarely, but not necessarily, including forming attractions to a new sex. Rarely do individuals radically reorient their sexualities rapidly—and still less do they do so volitionally—but often sexualities expand, shift, and absorb new elements over decades. For example, socially normative "age-appropriate" sexuality requires a shifting object of attraction (especially in the passage through adolescence). Contemporary queer theory, incorporating many ideas from social constructionism, tends to look at sexuality as something that has meaning only within a given historical framework. Sexuality, then, is seen as a participation in a larger social discourse and, though in some sense fluid, not as something strictly determinable by the individual.

Most sexual orientation specialists follow the general conclusion of Alfred Kinsey regarding the sexual continuum, according to which a minority of humans are exclusively heterosexual or homosexual, and that the majority are bisexual. The consensus of psychologists is that sexual orientation, in most individuals, is shaped at an early age and is not voluntarily changeable.

heterosexuality: Definition from Answers.com

There simply is no reliable, scientifically-generated data to support the contention that there is a large of predominate segment of heterosexual adults who are devoid of all homosexual desire. Behavior yes, desire no.

Masters & Johnson Sex Experts : Sex Therapists : Discovery Health

Masters and Johnson Institute - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

It may cheer you up to know that most homosexual adults have some level of heterosexual desire as well.

Bout Count Dracula, merely calling me stupid does not make you seem less gay, or more correct.

Just so's you know.

 

[Gunny]

rdean, not all of us have intimate sexual encounters with same gender-folk....but ALL of us have wanted to.

We are all gay "in our hearts", our secret thoughts, our desires. But being adults, we make choices as to which desires we will express...hopefully because those we select will best lead us to a fulfilling intimate life.

I think this must be the most fucked up thing I have ever read in my life. I can asure you, dear poster, that I am not "gay". I think you've been badly misinformed. Either that or you're stupid.

Count Dracula, there have only been two major surveys of sexual behavior in American adults, so there is limited empirical data. One by Alfred Kinsey, and one by William Masters and Virgina Johnson. ALL of the data has shown that MOST (virtually all) heterosexual adults have had same-sex desires they have not acted on. If you'd like to debate this point with me, by all means, let's do so.

The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction

At the beginning of the 20th century, early theoretical discussions in the field of psychoanalysis posited original bisexuality in human psychological development. Quantitative studies by Alfred Kinsey in the 1940s and Dr. Fritz Klein's sexual orientation grid in the 1980s find distributions similar to those postulated by their predecessors.

Many modern studies, most notably Sexual Behavior in the Human Male by Alfred Kinsey, have found that the majority of humans have had both heterosexual and homosexual experiences or sensations and are bisexual. Contemporary scientific research suggests that the majority of the human population is bisexual, adhering to a fluid sexual scale rather than a category, as Western society typically views sexual nature. However, social pressures influence people to adhere to categories or labels rather than behave in a manner that more closely resembles their nature as suggested by this research.

Kinsey himself, along with current sex therapists, focused on the historicity and fluidity of sexual orientation. Kinsey's studies consistently found sexual orientation to be something that evolves in many directions over a person's lifetime; rarely, but not necessarily, including forming attractions to a new sex. Rarely do individuals radically reorient their sexualities rapidly—and still less do they do so volitionally—but often sexualities expand, shift, and absorb new elements over decades. For example, socially normative "age-appropriate" sexuality requires a shifting object of attraction (especially in the passage through adolescence). Contemporary queer theory, incorporating many ideas from social constructionism, tends to look at sexuality as something that has meaning only within a given historical framework. Sexuality, then, is seen as a participation in a larger social discourse and, though in some sense fluid, not as something strictly determinable by the individual.

Most sexual orientation specialists follow the general conclusion of Alfred Kinsey regarding the sexual continuum, according to which a minority of humans are exclusively heterosexual or homosexual, and that the majority are bisexual. The consensus of psychologists is that sexual orientation, in most individuals, is shaped at an early age and is not voluntarily changeable.

heterosexuality: Definition from Answers.com

There simply is no reliable, scientifically-generated data to support the contention that there is a large of predominate segment of heterosexual adults who are devoid of all homosexual desire. Behavior yes, desire no.

Masters & Johnson Sex Experts : Sex Therapists : Discovery Health

Masters and Johnson Institute - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

It may cheer you up to know that most homosexual adults have some level of heterosexual desire as well.

Bout Count Dracula, merely calling me stupid does not make you seem less gay, or more correct.

Just so's you know.

You're full of shit. Want to try again with some actual facts, or what? I'm about as gay as testosterone. Need references?

 

[strollingbones]

can we get films, gunny?

sure people can be asexual...i have known a couple...its just their make up...sex is too much of a distraction or they simply dont enjoy the physical contact...just cause it dont float your boat...dont mean it wont float someone elses....

 

[paperview]

I've decided to not post in this thread.

 

[del]

I've decided to not post in this thread.

i support your decision unequivically

 

[tommywho70x]

I've decided to not post in this thread.

i support your decision unequivically

i'm with you two.

celibate? i can't even give it away anymore!

 

[Liability]

I've decided to not post in this thread.

i support your decision unequivically

i'm with you two.

celibate? i can't even give it away anymore!

LOL!

Ok.

That was funny!

 

[Sheldon]

Wait... that doesn't make sense.

 

[PixieStix]

rdean, not all of us have intimate sexual encounters with same gender-folk....but ALL of us have wanted to.

We are all gay "in our hearts", our secret thoughts, our desires. But being adults, we make choices as to which desires we will express...hopefully because those we select will best lead us to a fulfilling intimate life.

I think this must be the most fucked up thing I have ever read in my life. I can asure you, dear poster, that I am not "gay". I think you've been badly misinformed. Either that or you're stupid.

Count Dracula, there have only been two major surveys of sexual behavior in American adults, so there is limited empirical data. One by Alfred Kinsey, and one by William Masters and Virgina Johnson. ALL of the data has shown that MOST (virtually all) heterosexual adults have had same-sex desires they have not acted on. If you'd like to debate this point with me, by all means, let's do so.

The Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction

At the beginning of the 20th century, early theoretical discussions in the field of psychoanalysis posited original bisexuality in human psychological development. Quantitative studies by Alfred Kinsey in the 1940s and Dr. Fritz Klein's sexual orientation grid in the 1980s find distributions similar to those postulated by their predecessors.

Many modern studies, most notably Sexual Behavior in the Human Male by Alfred Kinsey, have found that the majority of humans have had both heterosexual and homosexual experiences or sensations and are bisexual. Contemporary scientific research suggests that the majority of the human population is bisexual, adhering to a fluid sexual scale rather than a category, as Western society typically views sexual nature. However, social pressures influence people to adhere to categories or labels rather than behave in a manner that more closely resembles their nature as suggested by this research.

Kinsey himself, along with current sex therapists, focused on the historicity and fluidity of sexual orientation. Kinsey's studies consistently found sexual orientation to be something that evolves in many directions over a person's lifetime; rarely, but not necessarily, including forming attractions to a new sex. Rarely do individuals radically reorient their sexualities rapidly—and still less do they do so volitionally—but often sexualities expand, shift, and absorb new elements over decades. For example, socially normative "age-appropriate" sexuality requires a shifting object of attraction (especially in the passage through adolescence). Contemporary queer theory, incorporating many ideas from social constructionism, tends to look at sexuality as something that has meaning only within a given historical framework. Sexuality, then, is seen as a participation in a larger social discourse and, though in some sense fluid, not as something strictly determinable by the individual.

Most sexual orientation specialists follow the general conclusion of Alfred Kinsey regarding the sexual continuum, according to which a minority of humans are exclusively heterosexual or homosexual, and that the majority are bisexual. The consensus of psychologists is that sexual orientation, in most individuals, is shaped at an early age and is not voluntarily changeable.

heterosexuality: Definition from Answers.com

There simply is no reliable, scientifically-generated data to support the contention that there is a large of predominate segment of heterosexual adults who are devoid of all homosexual desire. Behavior yes, desire no.

Masters & Johnson Sex Experts : Sex Therapists : Discovery Health

Masters and Johnson Institute - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

It may cheer you up to know that most homosexual adults have some level of heterosexual desire as well.

Bout Count Dracula, merely calling me stupid does not make you seem less gay, or more correct.

Just so's you know.

Alfred Kinsey was a extremely perverted individual,

The movement of fraudulent view of human sexuality was based upon laboratory and survey "research" derived via illegal activity under the direction of, and perhaps conducted by, Kinsey himself as well as his "assistants"

Unfortunately it seems that you will buy into any hollyweird driven propaganda