To Cheat Or Not To Cheat?

he disappeared from the screen...'Judge Judy' must be smiling...she owes me...what is the going rate on marriage counseling anyway? I will take a smile pro bono!
 
Bonnie said:
Just like riding a bike ;)
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I know, just teasin the kids..Some things you NEVER forget.
 
fuzzykitten99 said:
i don't care how long I am married, i still get the butterflies when a guy tries to pick me up or ask for my number. i wear my wedding ring 24-7, so its not like they would not know, and many times i am with my son. :dunno:

If you really look like your avatar, whoa!
:whip: :eek:
 
NATO AIR said:
Honestly, I want your no-holds barred opinions.

I've had several bad relationships. I don't "trust" women. I have a great girlfriend (in Hong Kong), but she's far away and we only will see each other at varying points for the next few years. I hold a growing degree of faith in her, as my faith in myself seems to dwindle.

You see, I have been "tempted" on several occasions as of late. I'm not the a very handsome guy, nor a great practitioner of conversation with the opposite sex about things that don't lie well in the friendship or business categories. However, three very different females have walked into my life in the past few weeks, and I feel weaker and less certain with every passing day in my ability to remain faithful as they each make clear their interest and (in one case) their desire.

(going out to sea for nearly two months will help, but these same people will be around when I return)

So, I don't think cheating is the right thing, but I fell my good judgement falling by the wayside the more I try to fight tempatation and the advances of the three.

I feel guilty praying about it, because i'm ashamed of having considered cheating in the first place.

So as I will not be asking my shipmates about this (the overwhelming answer was, is and shall remain "its not cheating until you're married") nor my friends in Japan (who have been encouraging me to "hook up").

What do you all think?

Nato, the fact that you find yourself attracted to three different women at the same time doesn't necessarily mean that your GF isnt going to be the one for you, but more likely, at age 21, you just aren't ready to make a committment to one woman.

If you had written that you just "met this unbelievable woman, and can't stop thinking about her", that would be a different story. I think GOP Jeff had some great advice for you. Talk to your GF about how loose you want the relationship to be before you go ahead and do something that makes you feel guilty. Then you will be truly free to explore.
 
Abbey Normal said:
Nato, the fact that you find yourself attracted to three different women at the same time doesn't necessarily mean that your GF isnt going to be the one for you, but more likely, at age 21, you just aren't ready to make a committment to one woman.

If you had written that you just "met this unbelievable woman, and can't stop thinking about her", that would be a different story. I think GOP Jeff had some great advice for you. Talk to your GF about how loose you want the relationship to be before you go ahead and do something that makes you feel guilty. Then you will be truly free to explore.

Great advice Abbey!!
 
Abbey Normal said:
Nato, the fact that you find yourself attracted to three different women at the same time doesn't necessarily mean that your GF isnt going to be the one for you, but more likely, at age 21, you just aren't ready to make a committment to one woman.

If you had written that you just "met this unbelievable woman, and can't stop thinking about her", that would be a different story. I think GOP Jeff had some great advice for you. Talk to your GF about how loose you want the relationship to be before you go ahead and do something that makes you feel guilty. Then you will be truly free to explore.

Thank you Abbey!
 

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