The Science of Cougar Sex: Why Older Women Lust

[Truthmatters]

Im sorry you find logic so uncompelling

 

[Cecilie1200]

Yes it's true. Some women hear a reason or excuse not to more often then men do.

Hmm, anything I should do to prepare? I have read mens libidos go way down in their 40s but womens soar through the rooff.

What I can say is if you're fortunate enough to have a woman who wants you naked several times a week, tell her you know how fortunate you are to have a woman like her in your life. And give in, as often as possible. Unless there is something pressing you need to attend to, everything else can wait.

Several times a week?! Try several times a day. I suggest yoga and Viagra.

 

[kwc57]

Yep, I agree with editic.

Many young men are like nymphs for several months/years into marriage until the reality of unrealized responsibility sets in defeating their mental stamina if they were not adequately prepared.

Many men also party hard and eat wrong until their body bloats and their minds fail... Then it is almost inevitable that the 'monster' they've created during their lustful years of youth would become too much.

Oh my dear.......trust me, that works in both directions. There are girls who will use their sexuality to lure a man in and once she has him on the hook and reels him in (marriage), she hangs him on the wall like a trophy. Courtship is over and it's time to build a home, life and family. They allow sex to have kids, become stay at home moms and ballon to twice their size.

blaming the opposite sex.

We all should understand the genetics and bodily function behind this for both sexes.


Its a clear case of the natural factors trying to spurn on last chance species diversification.

Its true for both sexes and differs by sex to create it.

Live by your head or live by your loins, its your choice

Do everyone a favor......piss off. Don't you have some half assed political talking point that needs spreading?

 

[Truthmatters]

dream on

 

[High_Gravity]

Im sorry you find logic so uncompelling

Sheesh you switched to Goldschlager now haven't you?

 

[Truthmatters]

Is this a joke thread ONLY?

I thought the OP was asking a serious question

 

[masquerade]

Hmm, anything I should do to prepare? I have read mens libidos go way down in their 40s but womens soar through the rooff.

What I can say is if you're fortunate enough to have a woman who wants you naked several times a week, tell her you know how fortunate you are to have a woman like her in your life. And give in, as often as possible. Unless there is something pressing you need to attend to, everything else can wait.

Several times a week?! Try several times a day. I suggest yoga and Viagra.

No need for Viagra. More of a need for the children to be out of the house.

 

[High_Gravity]

What I can say is if you're fortunate enough to have a woman who wants you naked several times a week, tell her you know how fortunate you are to have a woman like her in your life. And give in, as often as possible. Unless there is something pressing you need to attend to, everything else can wait.

Several times a week?! Try several times a day. I suggest yoga and Viagra.

No need for Viagra. More of a need for the children to be out of the house.

Amen to that sister!

 

[Cecilie1200]

What I can say is if you're fortunate enough to have a woman who wants you naked several times a week, tell her you know how fortunate you are to have a woman like her in your life. And give in, as often as possible. Unless there is something pressing you need to attend to, everything else can wait.

Several times a week?! Try several times a day. I suggest yoga and Viagra.

No need for Viagra. More of a need for the children to be out of the house.

Not for me. My middle kid is a teenager. H'es more than happy to keep himself and his little brother in his bedroom and out of my way.

I do get tired of the deer-in-the-headlights looks from men, though, which is why I suggest Viagra.

 

[JimBowie1958]

I'm a little confused about what's so special about "same generation". Maybe once upon a time, that made a big difference. In this technological information age, it's incredibly easy for people across the age spectrum to share the same knowledge, hobbies, musical tastes . . . And let's face it, age is really not much of a guarantor of maturity any more.

It is hard to explain. For example, if I were to try to relate something to you about some of my teen sons attitudes, if you havent been through that, you might not get it or would sympathize with my son, perhaps.

When I say that a phone is not something you carry in your pocket, but it is a black thing with a handle on the end of a cord that sits on a phone book on a stand next to the backdoor in the kitchen plugged in to a wall, if you havent lived that you might not entirely get what I am talking about regarding my clunkiness in adopting new technology.

My daughter is amazed that I owned an iphone for over a year and never used it. She thinks I am a barbarian because I dont like to text. My son doesnt even bother and gives me the condescending smirk one might give an ignoramus when we talk about new computer gadgetry, and I am a professional software engineer! lolol

Can you relate to that sort of thing? Maybe you can, if so, then you have more to offer an older guy than just a cute smile and attractive shape.

 

[Sunshine]

There is nothing hornier than a 45 year old women. Been there. If you will notice many flowers of the annual variety blossom voluminously just before the frost. My theory is that a woman's body chemistry causes her to do the same thing just before she becomes unable to reproduce.

 

[High_Gravity]

There is nothing hornier than a 45 year old women. Been there. If you will notice many flowers of the annual variety blossom voluminously just before the frost. My theory is that a woman's body chemistry causes her to do the same thing just before she becomes unable to reproduce.

This is true.

 

[Iridescence]

I honestly used to wonder a bit why so many people are single or become single and cannot seem to retain sustainable relationships... After going through this thread (so far) and many others like it... I no longer wonder.

It seems to me that the average person really has no clue what relationships are about. However, of course, this was not a thread about relationships, it was specifically about sex.

 

[High_Gravity]

I honestly used to wonder a bit why so many people are single or become single and cannot seem to retain sustainable relationships... After going through this thread (so far) and many others like it... I no longer wonder.

It seems to me that the average person really has no clue what relationships are about. However, of course, this was not a thread about relationships, it was specifically about sex.

Maybe its not natural for 2 people to stay together for so long and we are just forcing it? but thats a subject for another thread.

 

[Iridescence]

NOT natural? I don't know. I couldn't boast to know.

 

[Cecilie1200]

I'm a little confused about what's so special about "same generation". Maybe once upon a time, that made a big difference. In this technological information age, it's incredibly easy for people across the age spectrum to share the same knowledge, hobbies, musical tastes . . . And let's face it, age is really not much of a guarantor of maturity any more.

It is hard to explain. For example, if I were to try to relate something to you about some of my teen sons attitudes, if you havent been through that, you might not get it or would sympathize with my son, perhaps.

When I say that a phone is not something you carry in your pocket, but it is a black thing with a handle on the end of a cord that sits on a phone book on a stand next to the backdoor in the kitchen plugged in to a wall, if you havent lived that you might not entirely get what I am talking about regarding my clunkiness in adopting new technology.

My daughter is amazed that I owned an iphone for over a year and never used it. She thinks I am a barbarian because I dont like to text. My son doesnt even bother and gives me the condescending smirk one might give an ignoramus when we talk about new computer gadgetry, and I am a professional software engineer! lolol

Can you relate to that sort of thing? Maybe you can, if so, then you have more to offer an older guy than just a cute smile and attractive shape.

I have a teenager, I remember rotary phones and party lines (let alone just land-line phones), and I only text when it's an absolute necessity, and really hate the practice.

Nevertheless, while I date men in their twenties, I don't date STUPID men, and I toss the immature ones to the curb. It doesn't require one to have a teenager to understand issues with dealing with a teenager, and maybe a little sympathy for him from an objective observer is what I need to give me perspective. In an information age full of pictures and movies and records of what previous times were like, there's no reason why a reasonably intelligent, informed person shouldn't be able to understand what the world was like before they were born.

 

[Cecilie1200]

I honestly used to wonder a bit why so many people are single or become single and cannot seem to retain sustainable relationships... After going through this thread (so far) and many others like it... I no longer wonder.

It seems to me that the average person really has no clue what relationships are about. However, of course, this was not a thread about relationships, it was specifically about sex.

I'm curious as to what you think you know about relationships that others don't.

 

[Cecilie1200]

I honestly used to wonder a bit why so many people are single or become single and cannot seem to retain sustainable relationships... After going through this thread (so far) and many others like it... I no longer wonder.

It seems to me that the average person really has no clue what relationships are about. However, of course, this was not a thread about relationships, it was specifically about sex.

Maybe its not natural for 2 people to stay together for so long and we are just forcing it? but thats a subject for another thread.

Except that it seems only relatively recently that humans have developed a problem with it. I personally suspect that we're just too spoiled to be able to manage the sort of self-sacrifice necessary for a lasting relationship.

 

[High_Gravity]

I honestly used to wonder a bit why so many people are single or become single and cannot seem to retain sustainable relationships... After going through this thread (so far) and many others like it... I no longer wonder.

It seems to me that the average person really has no clue what relationships are about. However, of course, this was not a thread about relationships, it was specifically about sex.

Maybe its not natural for 2 people to stay together for so long and we are just forcing it? but thats a subject for another thread.

Except that it seems only relatively recently that humans have developed a problem with it. I personally suspect that we're just too spoiled to be able to manage the sort of self-sacrifice necessary for a lasting relationship.

Your probably right, that or the previous generations took the until death do us part literally and stayed together no matter how miserable they were.

 

[Cecilie1200]

Maybe its not natural for 2 people to stay together for so long and we are just forcing it? but thats a subject for another thread.

Except that it seems only relatively recently that humans have developed a problem with it. I personally suspect that we're just too spoiled to be able to manage the sort of self-sacrifice necessary for a lasting relationship.

Your probably right, that or the previous generations took the until death do us part literally and stayed together no matter how miserable they were.

Again, I think that's the "spoiled" part speaking that assumes they were miserable. Humans are amazingly adaptable creatures; once you take out the flighty, "I can just leave when it stops being a fairy tale" aspect, I'd say most people found a way to be happy anyway.

I say this because I've been married to my husband for seventeen years and counting. Is it perfect? No. Does it have problems? Hell, yes. Am I going anywhere? No, so I work with what's here to be happy anyway.

I think it's also only relatively recently that people have gotten the notion that life is supposed to make them happy, instead of happiness being something that they produce inside themselves.