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Our patriarchal society is in the midst of transformation, a snapshot taken today provides neither an accurate assessment of the current situation nor an accurate extrapolation of the future.
Such outdated and irrelevant notions as marriageable men and valued women are concepts no longer a legitimate criterion for judging the health of a society.
Marriage will continue to survive and flourish as an important institution of society the only question is: will its transformation along with the rest of society be uneventful or difficult, as the answer is solely a political one, having nothing to do with delaying marriage, a shrinking pool of men, womens earnings or education, or how promiscuous and unwilling to commit men may be.*
"...as the answer is solely a political one, having nothing to do with delaying marriage, a shrinking pool of men, womens earnings or education, or how promiscuous and unwilling to commit men may be."
*The promiscuous and unwilling to commit male is as ancient as the human race itself, having noting to do with the factors noted in the article; regardless economic situations and social conditions, men will forever be promiscuous and unwilling to commit.
The pool of marriageable men is a matter of concern...
1. "Every so often, society experiences a crisis in gender (as some academics have called it) that radically transforms the social landscape.
Take the years after the Civil War, when America reeled from the loss of close to 620,000 men, the majority of them from the South. An article published last year in The Journal of Southern History reported that in 1860, there were 104 marriageable white men for every 100 white women; in 1870, that number dropped to 87.5. A generation of Southern women found themselves facing a marriage squeeze. They could no longer assume that they would become wives and mothersa terrifying prospect in an era when women relied on marriage for social acceptability and financial resources.
Instead, they were forced to ask themselves: Will I marry a man who has poor prospects (marrying down, in sociological parlance)? Will I marry a man much older, or much younger? Will I remain alone, a spinster?
Their fears were not unfoundedthe mean age at first marriage did risebut in time, approximately 92 percent of these Southern-born white women found someone to partner with. The anxious climate, however, as well as the extremely high levels of widowhoodnearly one-third of Southern white women over the age of 40 were widows in 1880persisted.
2. 1940s Russia, which lost some 20 million men and 7 million women to World War II. In order to replenish the population, the state instituted an aggressive pro-natalist policy to support single mothers. Mie Nakachi, a historian at Hokkaido University, in Japan, has outlined its components: mothers were given generous subsidies and often put up in special sanatoria during pregnancy and childbirth; the state day-care system expanded to cover most children from infancy; and penalties were brandished for anyone who perpetuated the stigma against conceiving out of wedlock. In 1944, a new Family Law was passed, which essentially freed men from responsibility for illegitimate children; in effect, the state took on the role of husband. As a result of this policyand of the general dearth of malesmen moved at will from house to house, where they were expected to do nothing and were treated like kings; a generation of children were raised without reliable fathers, and women became the responsible gender. This family pattern was felt for decades after the war.
3. America as a whole currently enjoys a healthy population ratio of 50.8 percent females and 49.2 percent males. But our shrinking pool of traditionally marriageable men is dramatically changing our social landscape, and producing startling dynamics in the marriage market, in ways that arent immediately apparent."
Op. cit.
"...marriageable men and valued women are concepts no longer a legitimate criterion for judging the health of a society."
You see shortsighted in your view, as the health and happiness of individuals is an intrinsic element in an understanding of the 'health of society.'
Which is proven by the cultural decline of birthing in these populations imo. Good post PC. I was just playing a bit, but I have been reading...