The reality of abstinence

[Delta4Embassy]

"...abstinence works to uphold an ideal of masculinity that disadvantages both men and women."

(had to read the whole thing to get to the conslusion heh.)

http://theconversation.com/what-happens-to-men-who-stay-abstinent-until-marriage-47898

"After 25 years of being told that sex is something dangerous that needs to be controlled, the transition to married (and sexual) life is difficult, at best, while leaving men without the support they need. Women, meanwhile, are often left out of the conversation entirely.

So when we urge abstinence in place of healthy conversations about sex and sexuality, we may be undermining the relationships that are the driving goal of these commitments in the first place."

 

[HaShev]

I had this discussion with panels of priests whereby their vow to refrain is problematic
because it's part of our nature to procreate and when they go against this nature in life they have shown it only makes things worse in deviant acts.
Furthermore it's anti creation/anti life thus opposition/adversary to their own pro life stance & arguments.

 

[Book of Jeremiah]

I had this discussion with panels of priests whereby their vow to refrain is problematic
because it's part of our nature to procreate and when they go against this nature in life they have shown it only makes things worse in deviant acts.
Furthermore it's anti creation/anti life thus opposition/adversary to their own pro life stance & arguments.

No where in Scripture did God forbid anyone to marry or abstain from the eating of meat on Friday. Catholicism is a religion that is not based on Christianity but on the Pagan Babylonian religion of Nimrod /Semiramis.

 

[Avatar4321]

Funny I never had any problems adjusting to married life