CDZ The Psychology of... Insults

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While reading through one of our many personal insult-laden threads, I began wondering (again) about the actual goals & agendas of those who tend to regularly engage in that behavior (both here and in "real life"). Certainly everyone does it to some degree and frequency, but clearly there are those who appear to have a stronger need.

In today's hyper-partisan environment, what do you suppose is served by this? What is accomplished?

Anyway, I sniffed around a bit and found this:

The Psychology of Insults

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An insult can thus be interpreted as an attempt to reduce the social status of the recipient and raise the relative status of the insulter.

If that logic is correct, we can assume that insults are often motivated by anger surrounding issues of status insecurity. Many insults are reactive: They are responses to real or imagined slights from others, such as a person accidentally cutting in front of someone else in a line.

We live in a period of extreme concern about how we are perceived by others; social psychologists are charting a steady increase in narcissism among college students.1 There is little consensus about why this is happening, but some scholars believe that the more children are measured on evaluative scales—aptitude tests, IQ scores, and GPA—the more sensitive they are to threats to their social rank.

Of course, this narcissism trend is only accentuated by social media, where participants are subject to unrelenting evaluation by other network members who encourage participants to inflate their egos, often at the expense of others.1 Concern with how one is perceived creates social insecurity that may be relieved by lashing out at other chickens (or people) in the area. Social networks are replete with individuals who deliver stinging rebukes because they enjoy doing so, and because they are mostly exempt from the reprisals that one might expect for real-world put-downs.

Content: Status, Competence, Sex, and Hygiene

The purpose of a put down is to reduce someone else in the imaginary status hierarchy. So it is hardly surprising that insults will often refer to a person's social status in terms of ancestry, lack of prestige, or membership in a despised out group; for example, Nazis or vagrants. Otherwise, the content of insults across the ages is monotonously predictable: Many insults feature a sexual component, refer to sexual organs, or bring up shameful or ineffectual sexual behavior. In addition to status and sexuality, insults inflict shame by mentioning unappealing traits—fatness, shortness, baldness, spottiness, and contagious diseases.

Another way of taking a person down is by questioning their intelligence or general mental competence; for insult purposes, recipients are invariably "stupid" or "crazy."

The pecking-order logic of insults means that if the recipient is shamed, then the insulter rises in status relative to the victim: The insulter is the one doing the pecking rather than getting pecked. Not all insults are equal, of course: Some pecks miss their mark and have no impact upon relative status.

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While reading through one of our many personal insult-laden threads, I began wondering (again) about the actual goals & agendas of those who tend to regularly engage in that behavior (both here and in "real life"). So I sniffed around a bit and found this:

The Psychology of Insults

=====================

An insult can thus be interpreted as an attempt to reduce the social status of the recipient and raise the relative status of the insulter.

If that logic is correct, we can assume that insults are often motivated by anger surrounding issues of status insecurity. Many insults are reactive: They are responses to real or imagined slights from others, such as a person accidentally cutting in front of someone else in a line.

We live in a period of extreme concern about how we are perceived by others; social psychologists are charting a steady increase in narcissism among college students.1 There is little consensus about why this is happening, but some scholars believe that the more children are measured on evaluative scales—aptitude tests, IQ scores, and GPA—the more sensitive they are to threats to their social rank.

Of course, this narcissism trend is only accentuated by social media, where participants are subject to unrelenting evaluation by other network members who encourage participants to inflate their egos, often at the expense of others.1 Concern with how one is perceived creates social insecurity that may be relieved by lashing out at other chickens (or people) in the area. Social networks are replete with individuals who deliver stinging rebukes because they enjoy doing so, and because they are mostly exempt from the reprisals that one might expect for real-world put-downs.

Content: Status, Competence, Sex, and Hygiene

The purpose of a put down is to reduce someone else in the imaginary status hierarchy. So it is hardly surprising that insults will often refer to a person's social status in terms of ancestry, lack of prestige, or membership in a despised out group; for example, Nazis or vagrants. Otherwise, the content of insults across the ages is monotonously predictable: Many insults feature a sexual component, refer to sexual organs, or bring up shameful or ineffectual sexual behavior. In addition to status and sexuality, insults inflict shame by mentioning unappealing traits—fatness, shortness, baldness, spottiness, and contagious diseases.

Another way of taking a person down is by questioning their intelligence or general mental competence; for insult purposes, recipients are invariably "stupid" or "crazy."

The pecking-order logic of insults means that if the recipient is shamed, then the insulter rises in status relative to the victim: The insulter is the one doing the pecking rather than getting pecked. Not all insults are equal, of course: Some pecks miss their mark and have no impact upon relative status.

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I know that this is totally besides the point you are trying to make but how on earth would you "accidentally" cut in front of someone in line. That isn't an accident. Lol.

And one more thing, what is "spottiness"?

In regards to the topic, I think a lot of people here insult because they get frustrated, and it's as simple as that. I've received every kind of insult there is here. Lol. I was debating a person the other day about homelessness in San Francisco and pointed out that the person I was debating was posting postcard images of San Francisco, as I was posting statistics, facts, and first hand accounts from people who are affected by it, and the person told me my "image is ugly." :dunno:

So, there you go, if they are frustrated and have nothing left to argue, they will just start calling you names or calling you ugly, or whatever.

Of course, there is another whole type of "people" known as trolls who, for some odd reason, get their kicks out of insulting people and just getting a negative reaction. I have a theory that these people were ignored by their parents as children, so they act out for attention. :D
 
While reading through one of our many personal insult-laden threads, I began wondering (again) about the actual goals & agendas of those who tend to regularly engage in that behavior (both here and in "real life"). So I sniffed around a bit and found this:

The Psychology of Insults

=====================

An insult can thus be interpreted as an attempt to reduce the social status of the recipient and raise the relative status of the insulter.

If that logic is correct, we can assume that insults are often motivated by anger surrounding issues of status insecurity. Many insults are reactive: They are responses to real or imagined slights from others, such as a person accidentally cutting in front of someone else in a line.

We live in a period of extreme concern about how we are perceived by others; social psychologists are charting a steady increase in narcissism among college students.1 There is little consensus about why this is happening, but some scholars believe that the more children are measured on evaluative scales—aptitude tests, IQ scores, and GPA—the more sensitive they are to threats to their social rank.

Of course, this narcissism trend is only accentuated by social media, where participants are subject to unrelenting evaluation by other network members who encourage participants to inflate their egos, often at the expense of others.1 Concern with how one is perceived creates social insecurity that may be relieved by lashing out at other chickens (or people) in the area. Social networks are replete with individuals who deliver stinging rebukes because they enjoy doing so, and because they are mostly exempt from the reprisals that one might expect for real-world put-downs.

Content: Status, Competence, Sex, and Hygiene

The purpose of a put down is to reduce someone else in the imaginary status hierarchy. So it is hardly surprising that insults will often refer to a person's social status in terms of ancestry, lack of prestige, or membership in a despised out group; for example, Nazis or vagrants. Otherwise, the content of insults across the ages is monotonously predictable: Many insults feature a sexual component, refer to sexual organs, or bring up shameful or ineffectual sexual behavior. In addition to status and sexuality, insults inflict shame by mentioning unappealing traits—fatness, shortness, baldness, spottiness, and contagious diseases.

Another way of taking a person down is by questioning their intelligence or general mental competence; for insult purposes, recipients are invariably "stupid" or "crazy."

The pecking-order logic of insults means that if the recipient is shamed, then the insulter rises in status relative to the victim: The insulter is the one doing the pecking rather than getting pecked. Not all insults are equal, of course: Some pecks miss their mark and have no impact upon relative status.

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I know that this is totally besides the point you are trying to make but how on earth would you "accidentally" cut in front of someone in line. That isn't an accident. Lol.

And one more thing, what is "spottiness"?

In regards to the topic, I think a lot of people here insult because they get frustrated, and it's as simple as that. I've received every kind of insult there is here. Lol. I was debating a person the other day about homelessness in San Francisco and pointed out that the person I was debating was posting postcard images of San Francisco, as I was posting statistics, facts, and first hand accounts from people who are affected by it, and the person told me my "image is ugly." :dunno:

So, there you go, if they are frustrated and have nothing left to argue, they will just start calling you names or calling you ugly, or whatever.

Of course, there is another whole type of "people" known as trolls who, for some odd reason, get their kicks out of insulting people and just getting a negative reaction. I have a theory that these people were ignored by their parents as children, so they act out for attention. :D
Well, I haven't exactly done any calculations on this, but my impression is that those here and in real life who insult others more often, are more often insulted by others. So folks generally tend to bring that stuff on themselves.

This is one of those things I would think we'd learn when we're young.
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While reading through one of our many personal insult-laden threads, I began wondering (again) about the actual goals & agendas of those who tend to regularly engage in that behavior (both here and in "real life"). So I sniffed around a bit and found this:

The Psychology of Insults

=====================

An insult can thus be interpreted as an attempt to reduce the social status of the recipient and raise the relative status of the insulter.

If that logic is correct, we can assume that insults are often motivated by anger surrounding issues of status insecurity. Many insults are reactive: They are responses to real or imagined slights from others, such as a person accidentally cutting in front of someone else in a line.

We live in a period of extreme concern about how we are perceived by others; social psychologists are charting a steady increase in narcissism among college students.1 There is little consensus about why this is happening, but some scholars believe that the more children are measured on evaluative scales—aptitude tests, IQ scores, and GPA—the more sensitive they are to threats to their social rank.

Of course, this narcissism trend is only accentuated by social media, where participants are subject to unrelenting evaluation by other network members who encourage participants to inflate their egos, often at the expense of others.1 Concern with how one is perceived creates social insecurity that may be relieved by lashing out at other chickens (or people) in the area. Social networks are replete with individuals who deliver stinging rebukes because they enjoy doing so, and because they are mostly exempt from the reprisals that one might expect for real-world put-downs.

Content: Status, Competence, Sex, and Hygiene

The purpose of a put down is to reduce someone else in the imaginary status hierarchy. So it is hardly surprising that insults will often refer to a person's social status in terms of ancestry, lack of prestige, or membership in a despised out group; for example, Nazis or vagrants. Otherwise, the content of insults across the ages is monotonously predictable: Many insults feature a sexual component, refer to sexual organs, or bring up shameful or ineffectual sexual behavior. In addition to status and sexuality, insults inflict shame by mentioning unappealing traits—fatness, shortness, baldness, spottiness, and contagious diseases.

Another way of taking a person down is by questioning their intelligence or general mental competence; for insult purposes, recipients are invariably "stupid" or "crazy."

The pecking-order logic of insults means that if the recipient is shamed, then the insulter rises in status relative to the victim: The insulter is the one doing the pecking rather than getting pecked. Not all insults are equal, of course: Some pecks miss their mark and have no impact upon relative status.

.

I know that this is totally besides the point you are trying to make but how on earth would you "accidentally" cut in front of someone in line. That isn't an accident. Lol.

And one more thing, what is "spottiness"?

In regards to the topic, I think a lot of people here insult because they get frustrated, and it's as simple as that. I've received every kind of insult there is here. Lol. I was debating a person the other day about homelessness in San Francisco and pointed out that the person I was debating was posting postcard images of San Francisco, as I was posting statistics, facts, and first hand accounts from people who are affected by it, and the person told me my "image is ugly." :dunno:

So, there you go, if they are frustrated and have nothing left to argue, they will just start calling you names or calling you ugly, or whatever.

Of course, there is another whole type of "people" known as trolls who, for some odd reason, get their kicks out of insulting people and just getting a negative reaction. I have a theory that these people were ignored by their parents as children, so they act out for attention. :D
Well, I haven't exactly done any calculations on this, but my impression is that those here and in real life who insult others more often are more often insulted by others. So folks generally tend to bring that stuff on themselves.

This is one of those things I would think we'd learn when we're young.
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I don't think so. I don't think it has to have any deep psychological meaning. People get frustrated and resort to name calling in most instances. I am usually never insulted or find the need to insult anyone else in real life.

Discussions about politics and religion can become heated. That is why my grandfather used to say if you want to keep your friends, avoid discussions about religion or politics. :D It is only natural, given human nature, that you are going to get your share of insults on a venue like this.
 
I have a theory that these people were ignored by their parents as children, so they act out for attention

hmmmm....
mmmmmaybe all us clevage guys were breast fed from across the room???
:boobies::boobies::boobies:
~S~

Men suffering from a fetish with boobs and other body parts have other problems entirely. Basically, you men are just completely sexually dysfunctional. That is my theory. :113:
 
While reading through one of our many personal insult-laden threads, I began wondering (again) about the actual goals & agendas of those who tend to regularly engage in that behavior (both here and in "real life"). So I sniffed around a bit and found this:

The Psychology of Insults

=====================

An insult can thus be interpreted as an attempt to reduce the social status of the recipient and raise the relative status of the insulter.

If that logic is correct, we can assume that insults are often motivated by anger surrounding issues of status insecurity. Many insults are reactive: They are responses to real or imagined slights from others, such as a person accidentally cutting in front of someone else in a line.

We live in a period of extreme concern about how we are perceived by others; social psychologists are charting a steady increase in narcissism among college students.1 There is little consensus about why this is happening, but some scholars believe that the more children are measured on evaluative scales—aptitude tests, IQ scores, and GPA—the more sensitive they are to threats to their social rank.

Of course, this narcissism trend is only accentuated by social media, where participants are subject to unrelenting evaluation by other network members who encourage participants to inflate their egos, often at the expense of others.1 Concern with how one is perceived creates social insecurity that may be relieved by lashing out at other chickens (or people) in the area. Social networks are replete with individuals who deliver stinging rebukes because they enjoy doing so, and because they are mostly exempt from the reprisals that one might expect for real-world put-downs.

Content: Status, Competence, Sex, and Hygiene

The purpose of a put down is to reduce someone else in the imaginary status hierarchy. So it is hardly surprising that insults will often refer to a person's social status in terms of ancestry, lack of prestige, or membership in a despised out group; for example, Nazis or vagrants. Otherwise, the content of insults across the ages is monotonously predictable: Many insults feature a sexual component, refer to sexual organs, or bring up shameful or ineffectual sexual behavior. In addition to status and sexuality, insults inflict shame by mentioning unappealing traits—fatness, shortness, baldness, spottiness, and contagious diseases.

Another way of taking a person down is by questioning their intelligence or general mental competence; for insult purposes, recipients are invariably "stupid" or "crazy."

The pecking-order logic of insults means that if the recipient is shamed, then the insulter rises in status relative to the victim: The insulter is the one doing the pecking rather than getting pecked. Not all insults are equal, of course: Some pecks miss their mark and have no impact upon relative status.

.

I know that this is totally besides the point you are trying to make but how on earth would you "accidentally" cut in front of someone in line. That isn't an accident. Lol.

And one more thing, what is "spottiness"?

In regards to the topic, I think a lot of people here insult because they get frustrated, and it's as simple as that. I've received every kind of insult there is here. Lol. I was debating a person the other day about homelessness in San Francisco and pointed out that the person I was debating was posting postcard images of San Francisco, as I was posting statistics, facts, and first hand accounts from people who are affected by it, and the person told me my "image is ugly." :dunno:

So, there you go, if they are frustrated and have nothing left to argue, they will just start calling you names or calling you ugly, or whatever.

Of course, there is another whole type of "people" known as trolls who, for some odd reason, get their kicks out of insulting people and just getting a negative reaction. I have a theory that these people were ignored by their parents as children, so they act out for attention. :D
Well, I haven't exactly done any calculations on this, but my impression is that those here and in real life who insult others more often are more often insulted by others. So folks generally tend to bring that stuff on themselves.

This is one of those things I would think we'd learn when we're young.
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I don't think so. I don't think it has to have any deep psychological meaning. People get frustrated and resort to name calling in most instances. I am usually never insulted or find the need to insult anyone else in real life.

Discussions about politics and religion can become heated. That is why my grandfather used to say if you want to keep your friends, avoid discussions about religion or politics. :D It is only natural, given human nature, that you are going to get your share of insults on a venue like this.
Sure, there's here, and there's real life.

Here, things escalate at light speed, and three or four posts into a thread it's little more than a grade school food fight. But that's a choice people are making.

In real life - and this is just my observation - this is happening more and more as well. That's what concerns me.
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Insults from inferiors should be ignored. Failure to ignore insults positions oneself below the 'insulter'. Returning insults puts both on the same level. The resolution of the problem is to grow up.
 
I have a theory that these people were ignored by their parents as children, so they act out for attention

hmmmm....
mmmmmaybe all us clevage guys were breast fed from across the room???
:boobies::boobies::boobies:
~S~

Men suffering from a fetish with boobs and other body parts have other problems entirely. Basically, you men are just completely sexually dysfunctional. That is my theory. :113:
Men are only following nature, so it cannot be called 'dysfunctional'. It is only too functional!
 
While reading through one of our many personal insult-laden threads, I began wondering (again) about the actual goals & agendas of those who tend to regularly engage in that behavior (both here and in "real life"). So I sniffed around a bit and found this:

The Psychology of Insults

=====================

An insult can thus be interpreted as an attempt to reduce the social status of the recipient and raise the relative status of the insulter.

If that logic is correct, we can assume that insults are often motivated by anger surrounding issues of status insecurity. Many insults are reactive: They are responses to real or imagined slights from others, such as a person accidentally cutting in front of someone else in a line.

We live in a period of extreme concern about how we are perceived by others; social psychologists are charting a steady increase in narcissism among college students.1 There is little consensus about why this is happening, but some scholars believe that the more children are measured on evaluative scales—aptitude tests, IQ scores, and GPA—the more sensitive they are to threats to their social rank.

Of course, this narcissism trend is only accentuated by social media, where participants are subject to unrelenting evaluation by other network members who encourage participants to inflate their egos, often at the expense of others.1 Concern with how one is perceived creates social insecurity that may be relieved by lashing out at other chickens (or people) in the area. Social networks are replete with individuals who deliver stinging rebukes because they enjoy doing so, and because they are mostly exempt from the reprisals that one might expect for real-world put-downs.

Content: Status, Competence, Sex, and Hygiene

The purpose of a put down is to reduce someone else in the imaginary status hierarchy. So it is hardly surprising that insults will often refer to a person's social status in terms of ancestry, lack of prestige, or membership in a despised out group; for example, Nazis or vagrants. Otherwise, the content of insults across the ages is monotonously predictable: Many insults feature a sexual component, refer to sexual organs, or bring up shameful or ineffectual sexual behavior. In addition to status and sexuality, insults inflict shame by mentioning unappealing traits—fatness, shortness, baldness, spottiness, and contagious diseases.

Another way of taking a person down is by questioning their intelligence or general mental competence; for insult purposes, recipients are invariably "stupid" or "crazy."

The pecking-order logic of insults means that if the recipient is shamed, then the insulter rises in status relative to the victim: The insulter is the one doing the pecking rather than getting pecked. Not all insults are equal, of course: Some pecks miss their mark and have no impact upon relative status.

.

I know that this is totally besides the point you are trying to make but how on earth would you "accidentally" cut in front of someone in line. That isn't an accident. Lol.

And one more thing, what is "spottiness"?

In regards to the topic, I think a lot of people here insult because they get frustrated, and it's as simple as that. I've received every kind of insult there is here. Lol. I was debating a person the other day about homelessness in San Francisco and pointed out that the person I was debating was posting postcard images of San Francisco, as I was posting statistics, facts, and first hand accounts from people who are affected by it, and the person told me my "image is ugly." :dunno:

So, there you go, if they are frustrated and have nothing left to argue, they will just start calling you names or calling you ugly, or whatever.

Of course, there is another whole type of "people" known as trolls who, for some odd reason, get their kicks out of insulting people and just getting a negative reaction. I have a theory that these people were ignored by their parents as children, so they act out for attention. :D
Well, I haven't exactly done any calculations on this, but my impression is that those here and in real life who insult others more often are more often insulted by others. So folks generally tend to bring that stuff on themselves.

This is one of those things I would think we'd learn when we're young.
.

I don't think so. I don't think it has to have any deep psychological meaning. People get frustrated and resort to name calling in most instances. I am usually never insulted or find the need to insult anyone else in real life.

Discussions about politics and religion can become heated. That is why my grandfather used to say if you want to keep your friends, avoid discussions about religion or politics. :D It is only natural, given human nature, that you are going to get your share of insults on a venue like this.
Sure, there's here, and there's real life.

Here, things escalate at light speed, and three or four posts into a thread it's little more than a grade school food fight. But that's a choice people are making.

In real life - and this is just my observation - this is happening more and more as well. That's what concerns me.
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Not in my real life, thankfully. I hardly ever get into arguments with people (aside from with my son maybe - lol), and I rarely witness arguments or fights in public. Then again, I usually go to places where such things would not be happening anyways, like restaurants, the mall or the grocery store or some place like that. Online message boards is where I see these things happening and maybe on the news sometimes (usually morons are involved though). I should tell you though, that I am the kind of person who doesn't like a lot of drama and tries to avoid it as much as possible, if possible. :) I just want a nice, peaceful and quiet life.

Anyways, I'm babbling. I don't think anything has changed as far as our political messageboard conversations but I haven't taken part for as long as some people have. Maybe it was more civil before? I can't say.
 
Insults from inferiors should be ignored. Failure to ignore insults positions oneself below the 'insulter'. Returning insults puts both on the same level. The resolution of the problem is to grow up.
Yup. I don't know why, but I'm always fascinated by motivations. When I see Person A insult Person B, I don't think about the insult itself nearly as much as I wonder about motivations behind it.

Weird, I know.
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I have a theory that these people were ignored by their parents as children, so they act out for attention

hmmmm....
mmmmmaybe all us clevage guys were breast fed from across the room???
:boobies::boobies::boobies:
~S~

Men suffering from a fetish with boobs and other body parts have other problems entirely. Basically, you men are just completely sexually dysfunctional. That is my theory. :113:
Men are only following nature, so it cannot be called 'dysfunctional'. It is only too functional!

It's like women have evolved and men have not. :D Men are still, in many ways, like their cavemen ancestors. Ug-ug. Boobies. Lol. They are so stupid. :D
 
Insults from inferiors should be ignored. Failure to ignore insults positions oneself below the 'insulter'. Returning insults puts both on the same level. The resolution of the problem is to grow up.
Yup. I don't know why, but I'm always fascinated by motivations. When I see Person A insult Person B, I don't think about the insult itself nearly as much as I wonder about motivations behind it.

Weird, I know.
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Hey, somebody has to tell them that they are stupid. :D It's actually the kind thing to do.
 
Insults from inferiors should be ignored. Failure to ignore insults positions oneself below the 'insulter'. Returning insults puts both on the same level. The resolution of the problem is to grow up.
Yup. I don't know why, but I'm always fascinated by motivations. When I see Person A insult Person B, I don't think about the insult itself nearly as much as I wonder about motivations behind it.

Weird, I know.
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Hey, somebody has to tell them that they are stupid. :D It's actually the kind thing to do.
Come on...
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Insults from inferiors should be ignored. Failure to ignore insults positions oneself below the 'insulter'. Returning insults puts both on the same level. The resolution of the problem is to grow up.
Yup. I don't know why, but I'm always fascinated by motivations. When I see Person A insult Person B, I don't think about the insult itself nearly as much as I wonder about motivations behind it.

Weird, I know.
.

Hey, somebody has to tell them that they are stupid. :D It's actually the kind thing to do.
Come on...
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It's like having a piece of food stuck in your teeth. You don't want to walk around like that, do you? :D
 

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