The Having an Affair Thread

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  1. random3434
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    I have a couple of questions for those that cheat, or have cheated, on thier wives/husbands, or boyfriends/girlfriends.

    When you have an affair, do you really think you won't get caught?

    Now if you're married, I'm sure you wouldn't come clean for awhile. But how do you look your spouse in the eye after screwing someone else? Did you/will you come clean with them?

    And those with a boyfriend/girlfriend, why wouldn't you just break up with them instead of running around behind their back? Wouldn't that just be easier?


    My one friend caught her hubby cheating on her, and after a long time of anger, decided to forgive him and he stopped doing it. He is trying really hard in the marriage now.


    But she still doesn't really trust him 100%..................
     
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    I've never cheated on anyone (but I'm not married).... And... I would not forgive someone who did. End of.
     
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    No cheat here.
     
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    Nope. Never had never will.

    I would rather slide down a fifty foot razor into a pool of lemon juice than face the wrath of my wife. :)
     
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    It's a Jekyl/Hyde thing. No fun whatsoever. Not a happy subject.
     
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    never cheated on anyone, never will. My wife and family are MUCH too precious for me to risk for some meaningless fling.
     
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    I can't worry about whether I will get caught or not----it messes up all the fun. Besides, the Devil makes me do it.

    *please analyze for 10 minutes before responding*
     
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    I had an affair after a really tough time in my marriage. It was a horrible experience. Caught between two situations it seemed and neither were more right or wrong than the other. Awful situation. Keep your pants up until you decide what you are gonna do is my only advice to anyone.
     
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    Affair thread, huh? Well, make sure you practice safe "posting".
     

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