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Ok, thank you. So what did Buddha say "love" is?
Buddhists define love as the sincere wish for others to be happy. We define compassion as the sincere wish for others to be free of suffering.
Ok, thank you, and for the link.
While it is noble and good to not want others to suffer, and we can "wish" it - is it reality?
We all suffer in something. How do we console one another when we suffer? For example, if when parents lose their children to a horrific accident, do we say, " I wish you would be "happy" ? Or rather, do we grieve with those who grieve?
Does Buddha teach about why the world is the way it is? Why there is suffering? Why there is chaos? Why we do things wrong and hurt one another, or ourselves?
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The Buddha taught about virtue and non-virtue. It is virtuous to wish others to be free of suffering and to be happy. It is non-virtuous to wish them harm.
How do we console one another when we're suffering? Great question. We accept the suffering, the truth of the way things truly are and we hold each other in loving presence. The causes of suffering according to the Buddha are ignorance and craving.
We don't make empty wishes to someone who is suffering. We respect the process of grieving.
The Buddha did teach about why there is suffering. He taught that in the Four Noble Truths. The Truth of Suffering, The Truth of the Causes of Suffering, The Truth of the Cessation of Suffering and The Truth of the Path which leads to the Cessation of Suffering,
His teaching is the causes of suffering are not understanding how things truly are. Not understanding impermanence, and creating karma out of that basic ignorance.
Just on a personal level, I really appreciate your sincere questions and respect your choice of path. There are many ways that Christianity and Buddhism meet.
More subtly, there is even a way that God and "Buddha nature" relate. They come together in the place beyond conception.
We might call Buddha nature by many names, including 'the Perfection of Sublime Knowing".
See if this sounds like God to you:
"Indescribable, inconcievable, and inexpressible, the Perfection of Sublime Knowing is unborn and unceasing. The very nature of space. It is the realm of your own self-knowing timeless awareness."
Prajnaparamita
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