Sometimes Kids DO need a smack upside the head!

[strollingbones]

right now the focus of the system is to reunite families....parenting classes and the little bastards is back in his room....you got to stand up to your damn kids.....kids should fear their parents ....kids should shake when dad is called...simple as that...

to this day.....son is 28....i will tell him i need him to do something....(clean the gutters) he will say no and begin to mock me....'what ya gonna do...call dad' ....'are you that weak' so on and so forth.....minute hubby gets him on the phone....i hear this...'yes, sir, no problem, i will take care of it' then he hangs up, mocks me and does what his father told his ass to do.

 

[High_Gravity]

right now the focus of the system is to reunite families....parenting classes and the little bastards is back in his room....you got to stand up to your damn kids.....kids should fear their parents ....kids should shake when dad is called...simple as that...

to this day.....son is 28....i will tell him i need him to do something....(clean the gutters) he will say no and begin to mock me....'what ya gonna do...call dad' ....'are you that weak' so on and so forth.....minute hubby gets him on the phone....i hear this...'yes, sir, no problem, i will take care of it' then he hangs up, mocks me and does what his father told his ass to do.

I agree with everything you said 100% but its not like that anymore, the family dynamics are totally different in this country and in some households or should I say alot of households, there really is no family to speak of, kids run around with shitty attitudes and think they are entitled to everything, the parents are there to provide a roof over their heads and food and thats it.

 

[strollingbones]

right now the focus of the system is to reunite families....parenting classes and the little bastards is back in his room....you got to stand up to your damn kids.....kids should fear their parents ....kids should shake when dad is called...simple as that...

to this day.....son is 28....i will tell him i need him to do something....(clean the gutters) he will say no and begin to mock me....'what ya gonna do...call dad' ....'are you that weak' so on and so forth.....minute hubby gets him on the phone....i hear this...'yes, sir, no problem, i will take care of it' then he hangs up, mocks me and does what his father told his ass to do.

I agree with everything you said 100% but its not like that anymore, the family dynamics are totally different in this country and in some households or should I say alot of households, there really is no family to speak of, kids run around with shitty attitudes and think they are entitled to everything, the parents are there to provide a roof over their heads and food and thats it.

o i see that...the friend parent.....and the fatherless or motherless homes....i am appalled at women who toss good fathers...(maybe the fucker aint the best husband in the world) out for other men etc....never go from one man to another....take a spell...figure it out....if the man you got is a good father...keep him.....you can live with an okay husband but you really want a good father...

 

[High_Gravity]

right now the focus of the system is to reunite families....parenting classes and the little bastards is back in his room....you got to stand up to your damn kids.....kids should fear their parents ....kids should shake when dad is called...simple as that...

to this day.....son is 28....i will tell him i need him to do something....(clean the gutters) he will say no and begin to mock me....'what ya gonna do...call dad' ....'are you that weak' so on and so forth.....minute hubby gets him on the phone....i hear this...'yes, sir, no problem, i will take care of it' then he hangs up, mocks me and does what his father told his ass to do.

I agree with everything you said 100% but its not like that anymore, the family dynamics are totally different in this country and in some households or should I say alot of households, there really is no family to speak of, kids run around with shitty attitudes and think they are entitled to everything, the parents are there to provide a roof over their heads and food and thats it.

o i see that...the friend parent.....and the fatherless or motherless homes....i am appalled at women who toss good fathers...(maybe the fucker aint the best husband in the world) out for other men etc....never go from one man to another....take a spell...figure it out....if the man you got is a good father...keep him.....you can live with an okay husband but you really want a good father...

Those good fathers get hosed in the court room while the bed hopping club going mother gets full custody, happens all the time.

 

[Wolfmoon]

Children should never be hit on the face or head.

Would it be OK to put an electronic dog collar on the little monster and shock him when he’s being bad?

 

[martybegan]

Children should never be hit on the face or head.

Would it be OK to put an electronic dog collar on the little monster and shock him when he’s being bad?

As long as the voltage was low enough. I would go for an arm though.

 

[generation]

Oh heck no. If anyone of my children EVER did something like that, I would pull a Bill Cosby.
"I brought you into this world, and I'll take you out".

 

[PLYMCO_PILGRIM]

Children should never be hit on the face or head.

Face, no. Head? Yes you dont pound them, but nothing gets your point across like the old "Italian head slap" Just a glancing blow right along the top, usually accompanied by the word "Stoonad"

yup

 

[rightwinger]

The kids video games would be in the trash if he treated my wife like that

 

[PLYMCO_PILGRIM]

The kids video games would be in the trash if he treated my wife like that

Look at that youtube page, there are some other shining examples of behavior on it.

 

[editec]

And then when that stops working?

 

[PLYMCO_PILGRIM]

And then when that stops working?

when what stops working?