So I met this guy...

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    ... the other night at the Wrinkle Room :)lol:). He's a lot older than me... I don't know exactly, I thought 30 at first (which is old to me) but the more I think about some of the things I said maybe 35 or more. He really got to me... it's hard to explain, he's a good dancer and knows a lot about music (which I love love love) but I still feel weird about it. Anyway, he texted me today and wants to go out tomorrow.... would you go? Should I just ignore him?


    And no, not the tow truck driver! :lol:
     
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    Simple question to ask yourself... What does someone who is just about old enough to be your father really want, and if he's that wonderful, why's he (supposedly) unattached at 35?
     
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    Always go with your gut. If a guy ever gives you the heebies, just say no. Seriously. Dating is like fishing, there are always more fish in the river.
     
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    35+? He's eyeing you as arm candy and (nearly) jail bait . . . fresh meat, so to speak. Run.
     
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    Yeah, I thought about that that night. He said he's recently divorced. Everything he said made sense, and he seems so great. I feel weird about going out with someone so much older, but... OTOH I don't think that age is necessarily the most important thing when finding "the one". He seems so perfect in all ways except the age thing. He didn't try anything with me... except while we were dancing, which sorta made sense. I don't know... I'm usually so good at reading guys, but he was like just so perfect in so many ways that it makes me nervous. Would you at least see him again, or no?
     
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    That;s the thing... I just don't know. :confused:

    I don't want to cut off smeone just because of age but it seems weird to me.
     
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    Ya think? He totally didn't come across that way. I'm so confused.
     
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    go with you gut.......
     
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    Thats no good... my guts confused.
     
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    Look at it this way.. You think 30 is old? When you're 20, he'll be 37.
     

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