http://www.snopes.com/politics/war/sheehangrave.asp After 2 years, the grieving mother can't even be bothered to spend a few of the $250,000 life insurance to get a headstone for her departed son. And she doesn't even have to. If she took 5 minutes to pick one out, the DOD would give her one. I...AM...SO...PISSED...OFF...RIGHT...NOOOOOWWWWW!!!!!