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The boobage, sometimes I think men aren't really paying attention to what I'm saying, and I tend to think people look at my chest more than they do my eyes or directly into my face, which in turn, makes me think they are not taking me seriously.
Trust me, if you're on top, and he's inside you, he's not critiquing your body. Women worry about this stuff way too much. Just let go. Stop thinking about what he thinks about your body, and lose yourself in what you're doing. That's sooooo much hotter.
If He's doing it right, she's not thinking about ANYTHING.
I am self-conscious about clothes that don't fit the way I prefer. Jeans that are too tight or shirts that are too small. I like the layered look but because I am most usually cold in air conditioning. I don't like showing off a lot of skin in public but because I have known too many women that are either emotionally scarred and insecure or just plain catty and mean...
It is really difficult to find flattering clothes that are not tailored and it is even more difficult to find affordable flattering clothes.
My biggest issue about being self-conscious, as I'm sure is the case with most individuals, is the way I am within my head about appearances. Most days I don't even think to really look in the mirror to 'see' the 'way' I actually look and I don't always realize I appear much more frumpled than I intend to.
These are my favorite clothes...EVER! I have quite a few in my closet although I don't wear them much any more except on rare occassions.
Tienda Ho
I love that style... While in New Orleans I came across a tiny spot of a store called 'The Pharaoh's Cave'. OMGorsh. The guy gave me an awesome deal on a dress set for my friend and if I'd had more time (and money) I would have gone back for other things.
Trust me, if you're on top, and he's inside you, he's not critiquing your body. Women worry about this stuff way too much. Just let go. Stop thinking about what he thinks about your body, and lose yourself in what you're doing. That's sooooo much hotter.
If He's doing it right, she's not thinking about ANYTHING.
Melissa, the guy as your avi.....he's HAWT
I love the idea he's flipping me off personally.... I had always favored Matthew McC .... and James Spader .... BUT Gerard Butler is more roguish. Gotta love that!
Your "boobage" is visible more often (although covered supposedly) than your scar which is hidden (unless you wear tube tops) and it is your scar that bothers you most. Hmmm. We all have scars, some visible some not, some physical and some emotional. That is what makes us individuals, it makes some people ashamed and others proud. Am I self conscious about myself? I used to be but as I traveled through time and I became aware of the flaws in everyone else I lost that self consciousness. I do have self awareness of my scars, flaws and physical limitations but I am who I am and I am comfortable with myself.
The boobage, sometimes I think men aren't really paying attention to what I'm saying, and I tend to think people look at my chest more than they do my eyes or directly into my face, which in turn, makes me think they are not taking me seriously.
My scar bothers me greatly.
It's a terrible flaw on my body. I can not wear a bikini, I don't like for anyone to see it. It's one of those hard to describe situations, but I find the scar hideous and while it is indeed covered, I know it's there, and I go to great lengths to not let my belly show. And belly button rings, are definitely out of the question!
What are you self conscious about??
For me it would be my rather large boobage and the ugly scar I have on my tummy
As to the scar, Do not think of it as something bad. It sounds like a fixation to me. Heck some people find scars admirable. I have a burn scar on my arm the size of a small pancake but it bothers me not. People ask me about it sure but it is a part of me, a part that I cannot change, but a part of my life. Of course I always crack a joke about it first, some outrageous thing that kinda puts them back on their heels.
I have had 4 c-sections, a hysterectomy when I was age 34, a surgery for kidney stones, and a couple of other surgeries that required going thru the abdomen area.
The scar I carry is a big one, it starts from right underneath my belly button, on down to my pubic bone.
Ummmm..how shall I put this delicately??
When one is being intimate, it's hard not to focus on my tummy, because that's part of the frontal view
It has bothered me for a great long time, I just never really speak of it much. I was wondering if anyone else might have some scars and how they were dealing with it.
I got some great feedback, Thank you much *smiles*
I have such a hankering to order some of that stuff. But where would I wear it? In the back yard as I dance in the moonlight?
